hey V,
what is suposed to happen is, if you pick them up and slip the boob or bottle in, they will either just drink it and stay asleep or wake up for a second when you slip it in but go back to sleep after a few chugs and still drink the bottle. This works for alot of babies however, once you put the bottle in orans mouth he would wake up and stay awake while he drunk the whole bottle then take about half hour to selttle back off properly. The would then still wake at 5am for that feed anyway so weather he had a 11pm dream feed or not he still wanted one later on. We tried afew times and always the same so we never bothered! Its a case of suck it and see with this one, works for some not for others,.
Good luck huni