niknaks
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as some of you may know im asian and unmarried and its been a bit hard for people to accept my pregnancy including my mum whos only fully come to terms with it. well a few weeks ago i sent a message to all of my mums side of the family telling them as most of them are from india and abroad and are a bit backward. also my mum was "too ashamed" to tell them herself, and dont want people talking bad of her so i just bit the bullet and went for it.
my cousins, some of whom are a lot older than me have been really supportive and excited about the baby. they do say we should get married bla blah blah. ( we are going to but want to do it after its been a year for my dads passing) i did tell them that were gonna get civilly married and were looking into it but its not on top of my list of prioritys at the moment even though i would marry my oh tomorrow if i could. but anyway, my mums brother POSTED on my wall on fb how he thought i was mature and how could i let this happen. i cant let my child be illegitimate and went on about steve job being illegitimate and getting picked on for it. he is also forgetting that he was in his 50's and times are changing. i was fuming and upset at the same time. went and told my oh straight away and he was livid and was like i should delete it straight away bt also my uncle lent my mum a lot of money towards my dads funeral in june, and feel its a bit disrespectful. sont know what to do and if i should or not. need some advice please xx
my cousins, some of whom are a lot older than me have been really supportive and excited about the baby. they do say we should get married bla blah blah. ( we are going to but want to do it after its been a year for my dads passing) i did tell them that were gonna get civilly married and were looking into it but its not on top of my list of prioritys at the moment even though i would marry my oh tomorrow if i could. but anyway, my mums brother POSTED on my wall on fb how he thought i was mature and how could i let this happen. i cant let my child be illegitimate and went on about steve job being illegitimate and getting picked on for it. he is also forgetting that he was in his 50's and times are changing. i was fuming and upset at the same time. went and told my oh straight away and he was livid and was like i should delete it straight away bt also my uncle lent my mum a lot of money towards my dads funeral in june, and feel its a bit disrespectful. sont know what to do and if i should or not. need some advice please xx