TTC but looking into other options

[dutchessmom]

Hello everyone! At the moment, I'm in limbo. I'm TTC but in reality nothing is happening. So would that mean I'm WTC? In the meantime I'm looking into other options. I'm 43 and I don't want to wake up one day and realize that I could have done certain things and chose not to.

So my question is, if you've been/are currently, in a similar position... what's the limit? what's the breaking point in saying OK enough is enough, I have to look into other options?

Thanks!

 

[Thehappyvet]

I'm TTC for two years, and I just recently decided that I cannot wait any longer. I'm afraid that it will become even more difficult as the time goes by. So I guess the answer to your question is when you feel that enough is enough. IVF is not for everyone, but to me at least came a point that I saw it as the only solution. I wish you all the best with your journey!