To try or to not try...

[Bubbles1987]

Hello!
So oh and I had decided that we would start trying for no 2 in March. My worry is since November I have had nausea and have a phobia of vomiting so this has caused issues with anxiety attacks too. I am now on medication for acidy stomach by gp which he said was safe to ttc with but not ideal... But only be on for two and half more weeks so technically won't be on them when I actually ovulate. I am just concerned that the morning sickness will make my stomach worse and I will vomit or there is more problems with my stomach that they won't be able to heal because I could be pregnant. With my little girl I had nausea but was never sick so was hoping I might not get anything this time. Another contributing factor is I have been stepping up in my role recently causing more stress but I go back to normal role in April so I might feel a lot better.

My head says just to wait another month but my heart says I want a baby and to just go for it as might not happen straight away anyway! My oh is desperate for another and has been nagging for about 8 months! I an rubbish at making decisions! Xx

 

[Mrs M]

You know a month isn't a long time in the grand scheme of things - March/April could be an Xmas baby, I'm not sure if that puts you off! Ha ha! You sound quit logical in your reasons for waiting that extra month, so personally if it was me I probably would.

 

[Donna88]

I think I'd probably wait a month as well, but obviously that's easier said then done. Only you can make that decision

 

[Mum2Many]

It's hard when it comes to the decision making aspect of it, isn't it? I hope you come to a decision you are happy with!

 

[Clairabelle]

A month really isn't long to wait and will pass quickly. Did it take long to conceive no 1, as you may not conceive 1st month of trying in any event. If you feel things will be easier and more stress free by just waiting a month, then I would do that. Or you could just ntnp this month and see what happens. I'm sure whatever decision you make will be the right one xx

 

[Bubbles1987]

Last time I came off pill and only had one period before conceiving. Was little shocked as thought take a while for pill to get out of system. I was thinking of ntnp and just seeing but that easier said then done I'll be secretly trying in my head doing all the calculations and apps. Haha. I think I'm going to see how I feel after period, stresses are always heightened when wrong time of the month. Got an appointment tomorrow with a hypnotherapist tomorrow as well who specialises in curing phobias so see how that goes. Last night I did come to terms with oh that if we have to wait one or two months it's not that much of a deal but see how I feel anyway and not put pressure on myself.

Thanks xx

 

[kellylou]

I agree with the other ladies maybe take this month to get everything in place so you are more relaxed and can enjoy!

 

[Losom1988]

Everytime I try to start the game, this message shows up: Game not available - Try again later Dunno what to do now...