To find out or not..a dilema!

[katie05]

Evening ladies Hope alls well, not been on for a few days. I have my 20 week scan coming up and i want to find out but hubby doesnt I think its fairer not to. Anyone else have this problem?

Thought about asking them to write on a bit of paper so i could read myself but then thought thats a bit naff! What do you think?

xx

 

[ASD123456]

I'm kind of having this problem but I'm leaning towards staying team green but aprt of me really wants to know. OH said that if I could come up with a good reason to find out then we could but buying things doesnt count!!! Also he will be in the US until May so won't be there for the scan so we wouldn;t be able to find out together. I am going to visit the week after my scan so I was thinking of asking them to write it and seal it in an envelope and we could open it together when I get there.

Decisions decisions!

Alex xxx

 

[Keano_Forever]

Me too! I would like to find out to be prepared, especially with a summer baby, but then I would also like it to be a surprise - decisions decisions he he!!

 

[Suzie and Faith]

I found out purely because i am totally impatient and because i didn't want to get neutral things. I also wanted to be sure about my name choices and i didn't think i could be until i knew.

Saying that i think it's great to have a suprise! Makes labour more exciting!

 

[lfc_sarah]

My OH said he didnt want to know...

But then nearer the time.... he wanted to...

 

[Lindsay]

My hubby didn't want to find out with my son so we stayed team green. He didn't want to find out this time either until his sister had her 20 week scan and found out that she was having a little boy - he now wants to find out so it looks like we are going to find out this time

I don't know why I want to find out, I just do

Xxx