I've posted this in the 2nd trimester because it's you ladies who have either just had the option of finding out the sex, or are about to. I know it's very early for me as I don't even have my first scan until next week, but DH told me last night he would like to know the sex. I've always said I don't want to know before the birth. I feel it's a bit like peeking at your Xmas presents before the big day. I didn't find out when I was pg with my daughter, but somehow I knew she was a girl a couple of weeks before I had her. I still however, loved the "it's a girl" bit. Having said that, DH last night said he would like to find out. He would luurve a boy, and keeps saying that if it's a girl, it's going back in!! He said last night that he knows it's a boy because he only produces boy sperm! He also said that is why he wants his mum outside the delivery room - so that if it is a girl, he can send her in while he goes to the pub for a consulation drink or dozen!!! I got a bit put out and everytime I said that he'd better be joking, he made another silly quip. Well, hormones kicked in and I started crying thinking he wouldn't want a little girl!! He then realised what he had been doing, and apologised. He said although he would love a boy, he would be just as happy with a girl, and would love it just as much. He thought we could find out at the first scan, bless him, so assumed we would know next week. I have set him straight, but he really wants to find out the sex. Now today, the more I'm thinking about it, the more I'm coming round to the idea. I think it is easier as it is my second child, and I don't care either way. I just wanted to find out what you ladies thought. Did you find out? Did you want to know, and then they couldn't tell? Do you regret finding out, or not finding out as the case may be?