THIS IS DRIVING ME NUTS!!!! (long thread sorry)

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[flexilexi394]

hello
If i were you, id take a step back . . . and chill.
Stressing is not going to help the situation. My advice would be just relax and try and enjoy the baby making - its only going to push your partner away if he has a stressy missus that is demanding sex on the right times of the clock.
I am a HUGE believer in just letting your body do the natural thing and allow yourself to relax and have some fun in the bedroom before you start with all these silly tests nonsense. . .
babies need a nice calm mother to grow inside, not stressy ones, think about providing your unborn child with a nice environment.
As you say its only month 1, definately no need for anything rash.

 

[Emmamb]

Was u on the pill or anythin b4 u started ttc?
All u can do is wait it out at the mo,if this isn't ur month then invest in some cheap hpt's off the internet ready for next month xxx

 

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[Emmamb]

The pill can take a while to properly come out of ur system,I was 100% sure I was pg in my 1st month and drove my hubby mad symptom spotting and testin but I wasn't xxx

 

[flexilexi394]

glad you see that a relax approach needs to be taken lol. dont forget it can take a while to concieve after coming off the pill - just take it as it comes, and dont make your partner feel shut out. i just have images (with lots of ttcers not just you lol) of partners feeling a little pushed around as they have to perform on the mark, and that puts a lot of pressure on a man, when really they need to relax as much as you do! try some wierd and wild things while ttc, better sex life = happy parents to be!! xx

 

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[Sunnyb]

Not many people get it right first time. If you miss that tiny fertile window then you won't get pregnant. If you've come off the pill your cycle might be different aswell. Most people on the pill have a controlled 28 day cycle due to the fact you take 21 pills & have a 7 day break. With my first I stopped taking the pill in June & got pregnant in the September of the same year. As the saying goes patience is a virtue & good things come to those who wait.
Try not to stress as this can affect your body too!
I'll keep my eye out for BFP soon hopefully.

Sunnyb xxx

 

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