Mrs.Goodchild
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Went for my 12w scan on Friday to be told our baby had no HB and had died at approximately 8w4d. My whole world fell apart and now I feel so broken and empty. I chose to have a d&c on monday although since Friday I have decided this is probably not the right choice for me. As if to agree with me, my body started spotting yesterday and woke up this morning to heavier bleeding and small clots. I am going to cancel my d&c tomorrow and wait for my baby to pass naturally. I feel lost now as I feel I no longer belong in tri1 and can't face TTC section just yet.
It took us 4.5 years to conceive along with another missed miscarriage in 2012.
This time I believe my baby had a chromosomal abnormality as both my early scan at 7w and this scan showed markers...
7w scan: yolk sack was extremely large (at least double the size of baby) and I was measuring 5 days behind the minimum dates I could be.
And this scan showed that the nuchal fold was already visible on the baby even though he only measured 8w4d (leading me to think that if we had gotten to 12weeks with a live fetus the nuchal fold would have been extremely large and a cause for concern)
Obviously this is just my theory but I feel the evidence is quite obvious.
So here starts my new life of a mother to two beautiful angel babies now in persuit of new hope and my take home rainbow baby.
Xxxxxx
It took us 4.5 years to conceive along with another missed miscarriage in 2012.
This time I believe my baby had a chromosomal abnormality as both my early scan at 7w and this scan showed markers...
7w scan: yolk sack was extremely large (at least double the size of baby) and I was measuring 5 days behind the minimum dates I could be.
And this scan showed that the nuchal fold was already visible on the baby even though he only measured 8w4d (leading me to think that if we had gotten to 12weeks with a live fetus the nuchal fold would have been extremely large and a cause for concern)
Obviously this is just my theory but I feel the evidence is quite obvious.
So here starts my new life of a mother to two beautiful angel babies now in persuit of new hope and my take home rainbow baby.
Xxxxxx