twixi
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Hi girls, I wonder if any of you are going through strains just now with your OH's?
Since our loss in may we started trying again right away and when I got af a couple of weeks ago I did go a bit wobbly and after too much wine we had a big argument, i guess about me feeling really down and insecure and all sorts of horrid things came out. The next couple of days after everything seemed ok and we were back on track, then last night oh announced he wasn't sure we should try just now as he doesn't think he can handle the hormones if I get pregnant! He also said if we were younger he would want to wait. Arghhhhh! Just as I'm becoming fertile!! This morning he says it kl we will try this month but I feel it's a bit forced on his part now. I just want my baby back more than anything now I feel really anxious he doesn't want it!!! Has anyone had this before, especially after a loss? Thankyou for any advice xxx
Since our loss in may we started trying again right away and when I got af a couple of weeks ago I did go a bit wobbly and after too much wine we had a big argument, i guess about me feeling really down and insecure and all sorts of horrid things came out. The next couple of days after everything seemed ok and we were back on track, then last night oh announced he wasn't sure we should try just now as he doesn't think he can handle the hormones if I get pregnant! He also said if we were younger he would want to wait. Arghhhhh! Just as I'm becoming fertile!! This morning he says it kl we will try this month but I feel it's a bit forced on his part now. I just want my baby back more than anything now I feel really anxious he doesn't want it!!! Has anyone had this before, especially after a loss? Thankyou for any advice xxx