I wrote a couple of days ago to say that my DH was not interested in the bedroom. We talked about it (briefly) yesterday evening and he says that he doesn't think he will be able to have any bedroom fun until after the pregnancy. When I asked him why, he said that he didn't feel right doing it when a baby is inside me (afraid he will hurt it or me). He also said that my boobs and belly did not turn him on (was slim before). When I complained about his last comment, he said that it was more to do with the fact that he was afraid of doing damage and he had a stupid feeling that the baby would wonder what was going on!!! The silly thing is is the fact that I don't really feel like doing it anyway, it is just the fact that I am annoyed that he has this attitude. Don't get me wrong - he is not intentionally hurting my feelings - he is just telling me the truth (that I asked him for). I have spoken to another man in work who feels the same about his pregnant wife, so I don't think it is uncommon. Anyone else in the same position? I know that after my baby is born, I probably won't feel like it. SO THE NEXT TIME I WILL BE HAVING SEX WILL PROBABLY BE 2020!!!!!! ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!