Sorry for rant iv googled again! Why oh why?'

[1986princess]

Sorry girls but this is yet again another freaked out post! Had a positive few days and suddenly felt the urge to google about the small blood clot iv got in
Sack and know I shouldn't have! They didn't seem that concerned at the pregnancy unit but even
Still iv read all the negative google stories. Iv seen babies 3 times on a scan now and im 15 weeks 4 days and they've been fine everytime. Just can't seem to enjoy pregnancy without worrying despite my best efforts. Think it's because we've told my partners son from prev relationship about the babies as he had noticed the belly and was questioning! He's so excited but now I'm scared! At what point can I feel safe to relax! Sorry for essay x

 

[tinks77]

I'm thinking you may need to be banned from google! Maybe we should fine you for every search lol

Seriously though you will always have worries but not enjoying the pregnancy is such a shame and you'll look back and regret it, nothing will stop you worrying 'what if' but it will stop you enjoying every moment of your babies growing inside you.

Now step away from the google and go stroke your tummy lol

 

[Danti]

Oh babes I don't know what to say but didn't want to r&r.. Google is a pregnant woman's worst enemy! It should be banned for us! Try not to stress, easier said than done I know but it'll be better for you and the babas in the long run. I hope you're able to relax a bit very soon and enjoy your pregnancy! xx

 

[Lilelephant]

Babe u have to relax the worry will make u Ill! Ur way past danger zone so enjoy the miracle that are ur twins! I am the same asbu worry about everything but every tine I think a negative thought I try ad replace it with a positive one x

 

[1986princess]

Thanx girls I'm gona have to ban google on my laptop somehow as it is taking over my life! im hoping most of it is wrong anyway! Just normally ladies have 12 week scan and relax (a little bit more) but havnt felt able to trust that all will be fine. Think I need hypnotherapy or something! It's mad as im usually so incredibly laid back! Thanx for the support girls x

 

[CustardCream]

The hospital told me about google 'Google tells you the bad and all the unsucsessful pregnancys, it doesn't tell you about the millions of healthy pregnancys and babies born' so I google nothing now. Google something about yourself like you've sneezed twice this year or something it will tell you that your gonna die tommorow !! So don't worry hun, just enjoy and relax, and ring NHS Direct if your really that worried I'm sure they will put your mind at rest xxxxxx

 

[jomc]

Step away from Google!!!!!!!!!
I find googleing things a bit like looking at a hotel on Tripadvisor....... people are quick to write about bad experiences as we all love a moan but very reluctant to write anything positive!

 

[Olive]

Step away from the google! Google tells you bad, your Doc tells you good. I know who I'd trust more...Doc! And Doc is right too Your babies are fine and Doc says so

xxxx

 

[Lilelephant]

My Oh got me a pregnancy book so I could look stuff up instead of googling maybe u should think about it! I have Miriam stoppard's pregnancy and birth book

 

[pinkyprincess]

Just OD on baby books. I'm sure there are some out there for twins?

 

[Sassysugar]

I know how you feel hun, I hate google. I'm really bad with anxiety through this pregnancy and have been seeing a CPN to try and help, she told me to stay away from google as its always the bad stories and not the good ones. She also said to stay away from forums too (but not able to do that one lol)

I always go for the worst case scenario (in my head I then think I'm preparing myself as the worst is always going to happen to me, if that makes sense)

You're babies are doing really well and I bet you enjoy seeing them at your scans too, I've had a few extra ones and its lovely seeing him on the screen.

I know its easier said than done but just try to relax and enjoy your pregnancy (If only I would listen to myslef lol)

 

[suzzi]

lol ido this and by the time ive finished my own medical diagnosis ive got every condition under the sun and my symtons do fit xx

read all the info you like but only take what your dr tells you as truth as there are lots of factors to be taken into consideration for each individual case, relax and enjoy if they thought there was a problem you would be the first to know.

enjoy babe xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Jayceesmumma]

I can understand why your googling.. We know it's wrong but we still do it

Try and relax babe your docs know best xxx

 

[NinjaKitty]

We're gonna have to tie some oven gloves to your hands so you can't use a keyboard

 

[1986princess]

Haha agreed I havnt googled since for a dry or so now and trying to stop it! Wonder how many days il last! X