so worried....

[MummyTo5]

a bit of my story so far....

i had a scan on 15th nov found out im having twins then only a few days later started to bleed i had been having brown loss for about 3 weeks previous i went to the a and e and they checked me and said even tho it felt like i was losing a lot there wasnt much blood so it wasnt an active bleed, i had a scan the next day and both babies are fine but there is a slight bleed attatched to the pregnancy she said there was 3 possible outcomes - 1- bleed will just absorb back into the body and it will be fine, 2- the bleed would come away and both babies will be fine, 3- bleed will come away and take one of the babies with it :'( .

Since that scan i have still been having the brown loss but no red blood so have been told to try not to worry (yeah ok!!!) today has really scared me tho because i have lost a clot :'( it wasnt round or look like anything to do with the pregnancy had a miscarriage before so no what im roughly looking for have had no pain just feeling rough, plus it was only the brown stuff again that accompanied the clot sorry for tmi no red blood except the clot obviously.

im just so scared no i feel like i really dont even no my own body at the moment i hav managed to get in for a scan tomorrow at 11 but i just wondered if anyone has experienced anything like this and if anyone has any advice....

thank in advance and sorry for the essay xxx

 

[Belle23]

My sister had twins and had a couple of big bleeds at the beginning and both babies are now 22 months and little terrors xxx

 

[MummyTo5]

thank you so much that really helps, you hear so many horror stories all the time its nice to hear some positive xxx

 

[Belle23]

Yeah she had all sorts but always came out the other side lol. Keep relaxed DONT over do it and loads of pelvic floors lol xx

 

[MummyTo5]

lol will do thats great are they identical? mine arent they have there own little sac ones sac is smaller than the other so they have been doing more checks but they both have good strong heartbeats... i dont no its just so bloody worrying i hate it xxx

 

[Young Mum 21 x]

All the best for your scan tomorrow Hun xxxx

 

[Belle23]

No none identical. Girl and a boy. Xxx

 

[masonowen]

Just try and relax ( hard I no), stressing out won,t do any if you any good the fact it,s brown is a good sign... good luck for tomorrow.

 

[MummyTo5]

Great that's even better knowing it's the same as me too thanks girls will post an update sorry to always be putting these types of posts just so sick of it all just want everything to be ok so I can actually enjoy this pregnancy xxx

 

[masonowen]

No need to be sorry, that's what we,re here for I,ll be looking out for an update.

 

[babybo]

Oh hunny big hugs!!
I think it may be that bleed that they said will come away and all will be fine! Good luck at your scan later and let us know how you got on but I'm sure you'll be absolutely fine xxx

 

[kanga86]

It must be a nerve racking time for u having all the uncertainty with the bleeding, hopefully everything will be fine and ur'll see both ur beans doing well later xx

 

[mrsblue]

Really hope everything goes well at your scan xxx

 

[misscrazycooki]

Hope your twinnies are ok hun x whens your scan today x

 

[masonowen]

How did it go today?

 

[MummyTo5]

news update

BOTH TWINS ARE GREAT

both have great heartbeats and are doing so well one of the twins sacs was much smaller than the other twin but today it has caught up its actually over took the other twin it measures 9 weeks and the other twin measures 8 + 6 i couldnt be happy they both looked amazing and what was even more incredible was that we seen them both moving and one even stretched out a little leg was the cutest thing

there is a bleed that measures 1cm but is not connected to the babies, its a bruise/tear that will just either reabsorb or i may experience another bleed but i shouldnt need to worry so much this time because we no where its coming from

thanks for your support girls think tonight ill sleep properly for the first time in what feels like forever

xxx

 

[mrsblue]

fantastic news xx

 

[Amyrose]

That's amazing news Hun xxx

 

[babybo]

Fab fab fab news hunny xx

 

[misscrazycooki]

Great news hun x bet your well relieved x