so scared...

[nicole86]

hi, this is my first post since jan wen i miscarried my baby att 11 and half weeks on new years eve.

im so confused. ive been doing ok, but it seems to be getting harder. i fell guilty wen im havin a gud time. i feel sick to my stomach wen i see people who i are at the sam e stage in pregnancy that i would have been now. i no this sounds horrible but i feel like this.

my boyfreind had wanted me to have an abortion bt i had decided and always knew tht i was keeping my baby. anyway i took him back and now cant help but wanting to blame him , which i no isnt fair.

i dont no how to move forward and want to ttc again soon so badly. im so scared of it all happening again.

 

[tracey 2]

hun what your feeling so so normal yes its so scary wondering whether it will happen again but the way i see it for me personally i think sometimes our first pregnancy is like a trial getting things ready and sadly sometimes it doesnt work out but when you try again all will be fine i just know hun

please take things slowly and dont rush in to things i know thats not a lot of help but think of yourself and try once you are both ready,

always here if you need to talk anytime

 

[andreag]

It is very scaring thinking about trying again, and I am desparate to be pregnant again, but know I will worry even more this time. We've decived not to "try" but also not to "not try" and just see what fate brings. You both need to be ready though, so take your time. The way I'm thinking is that the chances of having 2 m/cs are much lower than having one, this helps me saty positive.