Skylar Born 10/01/14 weighing 4lb 5

Tarah

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Just a recap ........

......... Well I was measuring big all the way through, my temp MW noticed I should of had a GTT test so arranged it straight away as 36 weeks is cut off. I had a growth scan at first and baby was actually measuring small was on the bottom line they said she was 5lb 2. I had protein in urine at previous MW appointment so she had asked for my BP and urine to be done as well . BP was really high but finally went down but was told a MW would have to come every day to check BP and urine. On the second day the MW came round it was high went ADAU and was still high and protein in urine so had to stay in for 2 nights was diagnosed with mild pre eclampsia I was observed whilst I was there spent a ling time when ever I was on the CTG machine and the MW were never happy with the trace as the baby was never really active but doctors said it was ok. I was told I would be induced at 38!weeks I was also put on medication to control my high BP . At my mv appointment on wed 8th Jan BP was high so got sent to triage MW couldn't find hb which was worrying so doctor scanned me it was because of position but he noticed that my fluids were low so said that I would be induced the next day instead at 37+1 weeks

I was induced Thursday 9th January was on the ctg machine loads once for 3 hours as MW was not happy with babies movements twice hb went to 90 but they were unsure if it had picked up my hb doctors kept saying it was ok when they showed them after 24 hours nothing. MW put me on ctg monitor again and wasn't happy with it doctor said it was ok again. I Had the second pessary put in and MW wasn't happy with the trace on the ctg again doctors came down and I was basically told I was going to have a section as baby was in distressing I got so emotional and started crying as I wanted a normal birth I hadn't even got into labour or anything and my partner wasn't there and they said they could not wait and prepped my sister just in case he made it at the last minute. He was so good and just spoke to me the whole way through cant even remember what we spoke about lol!

I knew there was something wrong as I didn't hear her cry but as soon as she did I knew it was girl by her cry lol! Which is what we both wanted anyway. My OH Paul got to see her but I didn't as they rushed her off. She was also quite small and only weighed 4lb 5 although the growth scan the week before measured her at 5lb 3 although the MW that did it got a second opinion from another MW as measurements were small the other MW did it and came up with smaller measurements but they went with the first lot and I was meant to have another one 2 weeks later. Anyway the Doctor came and seen me afterwards and say they are glad they acted when they did and that my placenta was small and low down and that I probably wouldn't have been able to give birth naturally anyway because of it. In recovery I was so sick afterwards threw up 4 times, I should of spent the next couple of days resting but as soon as I could walk and feel my feet which was the next morning I wanted to be by her bedside as often as I could especially as I wanted to be able to comfort her when she cried and I know they don't always do and also to bond with her I had missed all of that because she was taken straight away . I didn't realise a c section was classed as major surgery I also didn't realise that her birth was that bad until I read her birth report she was blue and lifeless when she cam out and didn't respond until they gave her 8 breaths of oxygen. She spent 16 hours in intensive care on a ventilator which was there just in case she needed help breathing. She was then in a incubator until the Monday late evening then I finally had her to myself until then she was finally allowed home on wed 15th January after her course of antibiotics. It was such a stressful and upsetting time was starting to feel really down until I could have her to myself. I still had to be monitored the whole time I was there for blood pressure and it was consistently high one time it was 167/107. I still have to get regular visits from MW for them to check it and I'm still on a high dose of medication.

I don't understand how my low placenta was never picked up at my 20 week scan my MW said it can be dangerous to try and deliver naturally with a low placenta I know it can cause a lot of bleeding. The woman in the bed next to me had a low lying placenta and she said she came into hospital with severe bleeding and that she had an emergency section and also had to have a blood transfusion.

Thank goodness for midwives they seem to know a lot more about babies than doctors as every time I was on the ctg machine they were not happy with it as baby was never active but doctors always fobbed them off and said she was fine. I said the same to my community MW and she said she's glad I said that and that she remembers a time she refused to put a pessary in as she wasn't happy with the trace on the ctg and though the baby was in distress but the doctor said it was fine. Somebody else put it in when she left work and she learnt a couple of days later when she came back to work that the baby had died as it was too distressed. This was the MW that originally sent me to the hospital to have GTT I'm so thankful for her. She was telling my MW that she just had a hunch and that everything at my MW a appointment was borderline but there was just something telling her to send me to the hospital just in case and ordinarily protein in urine wouldn't have normally alarmed her but because she noticed I hadn't had my GTT and because of my stomach measurements she arranged it to be done and they decided to do a growth scan which then put me on the very bottom line although I was normally was above the highest.

The whole experience has put me off having children again lol! She is so perfect though I would not change her for the world.


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Awww shes gorgeous! Congratulations!

I had emergency c-sections and said the first time I would never do it again... 16 months later there i was in surgery doing it again lol!
 
Aww she is gorgeous! Congratulations! I'm sorry you had such a distressing experience - just try and focus on the fact that your little girl is here and is healthy! After reading this I feel quite lucky as I also had a lot of the same symptoms as you, high bp, protein etc. - at one point when I was in hospital my bp was 170/115! My little one was also smaller than the growth scan said, he was born at 39 weeks at 5 lbs 13 oz - but scan 5 days earlier had put him at 6 lbs 8oz! My story is up under Joseph William Bell if you want to read, as I say I was lucky and still managed a natural birth - maybe if you read it, you might not feel so put off having more.

Congratulations again and enjoy her now you have her all to yourself! xxx
 
Aw I'm sorry u had such a traumatic time! At least she is here safe and well! So pleased for u Hun!!! She is adorable and so teeny! Well done u must be so proud xxxx
 
Oh Tarah! I had no idea it was that traumatic! Bless u all :( i'm pleased you and Skylar are better now.

As u say, thank god for the midwives, who knows what could have happened if your mw hadnt sent you to the hospital that day. It's a shame the doctors didnt respect them more and listen.

Congratulations again :) xxx
 
Yes was traumatic when I got I yo theatre I had a melt down saying I'm not dong this without Paul then he came running in. Quite selfish now looking back at it when the baby was actually in danger wouldn't give it a second thought if it were to happen again, it killed me her having to be in icu and neonatal for 4 days I don't know how people cope whose babies are in there for weeks and months. I almost cried when I read her neonatal birth summary and she wasn't breathing and even after they gave her oxygen she still made no effort to breath and there were no chest movements which is why they had to give her more and that she came out blue and floppy.But she's fine now, whole thing.left me really anxious though and before she was allowed back to me we were really down I was like its suppose to be a happy time and I was just sad .
 
I was wondering about you today tarah so to come on and see all is ok is great news- I'm off to kiddicare tomorrow and remember our convo we had ages ago haha

She is a beauty and whilst it wasn't a smooth ride I'm glad your both on the mend - must have been such a difficult and traumatic time for you all

Wishing you a speedy recovery back to normal and lots of happy times xxx
 
I was wondering about you today tarah so to come on and see all is ok is great news- I'm off to kiddicare tomorrow and remember our convo we had ages ago haha

She is a beauty and whilst it wasn't a smooth ride I'm glad your both on the mend - must have been such a difficult and traumatic time for you all

Wishing you a speedy recovery back to normal and lots of happy times xxx


Thank you, not long for you now.
 
No- seems to have slowed town Alittle to be honest but I'm patiently waiting lol xx
 
Aw she is gorgeous tarah, massive congrats!! Hope your both recovering well after your trauma x x
 
I must say breastfeeding is hard work been doing it for 2 weeks now I don't know if its cause we didn't have skin to skin when she was first born and then her being on drip for 2 1/2 days. When I first tried to express colostrum into a syringe there was nothing felt really disheartened. After taking her out the incubator and having skin to skin contact I was able to half fill and syringe and the next time a whole syringe I was so proud as I has been so determined and the colostrum is really good for baby as it has all the nutrients and antibodies in. Over the next couple of days I was able to express using the pumps in the hospital they are really good and feeding her in a bottle then 2 weeks ago I finally got her to latch on. The only problem I have is she doesn't open her mouth wide enough so she's probably not getting as much as she could and takes longer to feed. The only time is he opens here mouth really wide is when she's yawning lol!
 
Bless her :) i love that teacup picture, she looks so perfect xxx
 
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Well done you for the breast feeding - have they checked for tongue/lip tie Hun - is she all ok there as I think that causes problems for suckling etc

Keep at it - all I keep reading is it gets easier as the weeks go on x
 
I finish work Friday

Well done you for the breast feeding - have they checked for tongue/lip tie Hun - is she all ok there as I think that causes problems for suckling etc

Keep at it - all I keep reading is it gets easier as the weeks go on x


I don't think she has tongue tie as when she yawns she opens her mouth really wide, I will check later though. Night feeds make me wanna quit on the 2 occasions that I've bottle fed her she's been fine and goes back to sleep. She was pretty much on it all night she does that a couple of times a week.
 
Aww she is so cute! Im so glad all ended well and you got a healthy little girl! How do you look so good with such a tiny baby? xx
 

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