Sisterly support, not!

[Welshy1]

I'm a big girl, I'm well aware of this and don't need reminding!

Had a family get together yesterday and everyone was commenting how much weight I'd lost during the pregnancy, how well I look and how they couldn't see a bump yet etc.

All apart from my one of my elder sister's, who agreed with me that I'd lost loads of weight but then told me I need to lose more!

Really, should you be telling a 6 month pregnant woman who's lost two dress sizes during the first two trimesters that she needs to be focusing on losing more before the birth????

 

[ISH]

Hope you gave her a good telling off, that was uncalled for, grrrrrr!!

 

[roxane 1985]

lol has she not got children of her own.

just ignore ppls comments ppl tend to speak before they think about what theyre saying

 

[Lilelephant]

boo to her sounds like jealousy?

 

[pinkyprincess]

What a cow!

 

[Dee83]

Sounds like jealousy to me - maybe she's insecure about herself!

 

[saraian26]

You have done great, i lost a lot of weight as well when pregnant thanks to healthy eating and all that!

Do what your doing and ignore silly comments like that!

 

[1986princess]

How rude and insensitive hope ur ok hun x uv done so well to lose 2 dress sizes! Maybe she's jealous! X

 

[redbear]

Im a big lass and as soon as i got pregnant people where saying 'you don't need to eat for two' - not that i was they just said str8t away and now i have lost like a stone from sickness and not eating i still get one bitchy aunt who always makes shitty comments about how i will need to loose more to run around with the kid.... excuse me i run around just fine as i am thaks!!
Dont let it get to you hun well done for eating healthy but please don't pressure yourself if you gain some from now you have still done fantastic xx

 

[Welshy1]

Thanks for the comments all!

I was capable of losing my cool Sunday so pointedly sat facing away from her for the rest of the day as I didn't want to make a scene in front of everyone. She's always been like this to me, she's about 15 years older than me and puts me down at every possible opportunity, (even when our Dad was killed)!

My plan is to bypass her for the rest of my pregnancy and allow her to keep her blinkered opinions of me to herself!

 

[redbear]

People like that will pick on anything she will probably start on something else after the babies born but you will be expecting it so know she is picking at staws....
I wouldn't mind but my auntie was fat herself untill last year and her daughter is bigger than me and her ten year old son is very overweight and has boobs that show through his uniform but i wouldn't go saying anything to them to make them feel like crap... but she does it all the time to me and my little sister (who is a size 12) ... she is just a nasty person... maybe your sister is the same lol xx

 

[Welshy1]

People like that will pick on anything she will probably start on something else after the babies born but you will be expecting it so know she is picking at staws....
I wouldn't mind but my auntie was fat herself untill last year and her daughter is bigger than me and her ten year old son is very overweight and has boobs that show through his uniform but i wouldn't go saying anything to them to make them feel like crap... but she does it all the time to me and my little sister (who is a size 12) ... she is just a nasty person... maybe your sister is the same lol xx

I think you're right there redbear. Small minded people........


xx

 

[Lilmoomin]

Sounds like jealousy! I'm jealous lol. I have started piling on the weight, I'm not too worried as I know after I can loose the weight! Right now we need to focus on being happy and look forward to our little bundles of joy that will be here soon! My sister us very jealous of me, I let it get to me at first but now I just let her get on with it! I ignore her comments, it's the best way!

 

[Welshy1]

Well said Lilmoomin!

xx

 

[redbear]

Yeh the thing is if you know its coming you can sort of laugh it off because you know she would pick on any little thing! xx