Hiya,
I've just found out that my hubby's relative has been for a scan and sadly there was no heartbeat. I didn't know she was pregnant.
I've only met her a handful of times but we seemed to have a lot in common and I don't know if I should contact her and offer her my condolences.
My hubby isn't inclined to contact her and I would do, but she made a rather snarky comment on FB about her loss so I'm not sure.
She addressed "all the people who hadn't bothered to ask how the scan went" and told them "the baby is dead" and then she addressed "all the people who had asked if she'd find out the sex" and made a similar remark about having to pass the corpse first...
Then she changed the subject and happily talked about her pets
I don't know whether she'd view any contact from me as something to be sneered at.
What do you think? xx
I've just found out that my hubby's relative has been for a scan and sadly there was no heartbeat. I didn't know she was pregnant.
I've only met her a handful of times but we seemed to have a lot in common and I don't know if I should contact her and offer her my condolences.
My hubby isn't inclined to contact her and I would do, but she made a rather snarky comment on FB about her loss so I'm not sure.
She addressed "all the people who hadn't bothered to ask how the scan went" and told them "the baby is dead" and then she addressed "all the people who had asked if she'd find out the sex" and made a similar remark about having to pass the corpse first...
Then she changed the subject and happily talked about her pets
I don't know whether she'd view any contact from me as something to be sneered at.
What do you think? xx