Hi all, I'm sure I shouldn't post this here but I would like the opinion of Mums to be. I've just discovered that my ex gave birth at the end of last month, but during the pregnancy we had a lot of contact. More or less every two weeks I'd receive a text or email saying that she still loved me and was thinking of me or remembering that on that day the previous year we were together doing something special, during this time she made no mention of the pregnancy. My question is, if you're happy with your life and pregnant with your new guy's child, would you do that? I haven't heard from her since the birth so I guess she's trying to make a go of it, but surely the arrival of a new baby will not make things better between them? I'm know I wouldn't be to happy if I had a girlfriend who was pregnant and was in regular contact with her ex! I really would value your opinions.