Shaken, tired and touched!

Jaidy

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Hello everyone! :wave:

Wow, I am sat here so touched I have a tear in my eye looking at the messages you posted regarding my scare!!

You lot are awesome you really are.

First of all I wanna say many thanks to Kaye for letting you guys know and to Lynsey and Rusks for their text messages. I appreciated it so much.

Anyway this is what happened.... :(

OH and I got into bed about half 9 last night and decided it was time for some 'rumpy pumpy' :oops:

Half way through the deed I felt this really warm sensation down below, looked and there was red, fresh, blood all over the mattress. I tell you what I have never been so scared in my life.

I went to the loo, popped in a pad and decided to ring NHS direct. They were really good and put me straight through to the doctor at my local hozzie.

The doctor told me to come into the treatment centre out of hours clinic immediately, I was all of a fuss and a panic I shoved on some clothes, grabbed my hand bag and off we went on the 30 minute drive to the hospital.

When I got there the doctor felt my tummy and asked if I was still bleeding which I was and I was then sent up to the maternity ward.

I was put in my own room and saw a really lovely midwife. She took my blood pressure, heart rate, temperature etc all of which was fine. She then wanted to look at my pad to check the blood flow and called the doctor. I was given a fresh pad, a nice fat maternity one lol so they could monitor the bleeding.

Then came the nice bit...I had to have an internal ewwww.
The doctor said there was a clot on my cervix and removed it, it was ok nothing sinister just where the blood had congealed. She said my cervix was closed which was a mega relief and that the bleeding was stopping.

They then checked the baby's heart...it was fine, beating away lovely and it never stopped moving the whole time I was in the hozzie so that reassured me.

They decided to admit me because they needed to keep an eye on the bleeding. OH was asked to leave and I cried!!! Im such a wimp when it comes to things like that. :cry:

They knew the bleeding was not due to the placenta because they checked my scan report from last Wed and the placenta is posterior so that was also good news.

By this morning the bleeding had settled and I was moved into the maternity ward from my own room.

The consultant came round at 11 and said that as the bleeding had subsided I could go home provided I take it extremely easy for the next few weeks and that I get plenty of rest.

He did a bedside scan just to show me that baby was fine, it was all snug in my womb, jiggling about its hearting pumping away!!

The cause of the bleed really is unknown but they all said that 'post sex' bleeding isnt uncommon in pregnancy. Im afraid OH is going to have to become celibate for the rest of the pregnancy, its put me off for life!

I never felt any pain at all and felt ok so thats great but if anything else happens Im to go straight in. Its just so frightening, im still shaken from it now and Im kinda thinking what if all the time and am nervous about the future but Ive been assured all is ok. Its natural to worry when that sort of thing has happened I suppose!

Once again I wanna say thank you all for your lovely messages!!!

Il come on tomorrow to catch up on all the threads but wanted you lot to know Im home and doing ok. :)
 
glad you're ok jade. i did text you a while ago to see how you were. :hug: :hug: :hug:
 
Oh babes, I am so pleased you and LO are okxxxxx :hug:

Please look after yourselves, get loads of rest and NO more rumpy pumpy!!!! :shakehead: Poor OH, he will have to wait till LO is here!! :doh:

Much much love and best wishes, its made my day to know you are ok, when I check forum at lunchtime and saw what had happened, I felt sick and upset

Sweet dream darling pie, keep us posted xxxxxxxx
 
Awwwwwwwwww I am so pleased you are both fine babe!! That is brilliant news!!!

At least your OH only has 20 weeks to wait for rump pumpy, mine has 26 weeks!!!! :rotfl: :rotfl:

Seriously, get plenty of rest babe and look after yourself and make sure your waited on!!!!

Speak soon :hug: xx
 
awwww babe thats an awfull scare for u, my heart sank when i read you were in hospital.

take it easy babes and NO MORE SEX!!!!! kris and your fella can moan together hahahaha I HATE SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Really pleased to hear all is well Jaidybaby, and that LO is still nice and snug and warm [and probably oblivious to all you've been through], OH will have to get used to solo loving, mines become a monk too, I don't let him near me unless its for a hug and kiss and nothing more - bless the sacrifices they have to make, they really do get the rough deal huh?!

Get plenty of r & r and make sure OH runs around after you :hug:
 
:hug: Glad your ok and your LO is ok too , make sure you get plenty of rest :hug: I think I would be put off sex after something like that
 
Sooooooooooo glad you're ok Jaidy.
You poor thing.
You had us all worried for a while there.
Lucyx :hug:
 
just really glad to hear everything was ok hun, it must have been so scary, i had post sex bleeding at 25 weeks and i was so scared.

who said being pregnant was easy :D

glad ur feeling loads better hun :hug:
 
Glad to have you back Jaidy!! What a relief!!
 
awww hun im glad everything is ok

take it easy over the next couple of days
loads of love sarah and braydon
 
Hun, i am so glad everything is OK, you had us all worried here!!!

:hug: xxxx
 
Welcome home hunny!!! :hug: :hug:

Have texted you a few times last night to see how you were and sent my love and hugs, hope you are well rested and taking it easy today.

You had us all really worried about you yesterday we were like one big happy family rooting for you and your baby to be ok.

Glad you are home sweetie and things have settled down, now do as your told and put thos tootsies up and take it easy you deserve it.

Take care hun and look forward to talking to you later, loadsa loadsa love and hugs kaye, ben, lee and baby tia. x x x x x x x :hug:
 
Oh love what an ordeal, I had post sex bleeding with Damien too, you feel so guilty don't you :oops:

Big big hugs and I hope you're okie :hug:
 
I'm glad all is well Jaidy. I had some bleeding when I visited my Mum in London and the first thing the midwives and docs kept asking is whether I'd had sex the night before! I hadn't as DH was in Denmark but it sure put me off having sex while pregnant :lol:

Make sure you get loads of rest. Are you seeing your midwife today or did they d your checks already?

:hug:
 
awww jaidy, im soooo glad ur ok, i was soooo concerned, take it easy xx
 
Oh I'm so pleased all is well with you! I'm new to the forum, but I happened to read the big thread about what was happening for you, so I'm really happy all is well! So glad you got a bedside scan and to hear the heartbeat too, must have been wonderful after that fright. Can I just sigh happily with relief again? :D
 
Thanks for you all your good wishes everyone :hug:
 
Hiya hun, nice to see you back, did you get my email? :hug:
 

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