Sex!

[KarenC]

I'm just the same - not in the mood for it at all. We've just been away on a lovely four day break in Pembrokeshire... did we DTD? Uh. No. Not once. But we tried this morning. Even though I'm nearly 29 weeks, we can still do it almost missionary style: kind of me half on my back, and him lying with his weight mostly on my lower leg so there's a big gap between our bodies. So almost sideways. Sometimes it makes my lower leg go to sleep, and the upper one gets cramp, but it just about works. Bump seemed OK with this, but my bump isn't that big yet. Poor hubby is terrified of squishing his child, though, and finds it all a bit weird.

 

[Amylize]

JAYJAY!! your not alone!! We are lucky to have it once a week! And when we do i get dry quickly and it hurts! not on the inside but aound the outside of my faf! sorry tmi! It's only since i fell pregnant and its only in last couple of weeks! As for positions ive even googled! i dont like being on top because i find it uncomfortable and sometimes it hurts like hell! spooning is the one we do most of the time but i know what you mean about doggy!

 

[Jayjay027]

Well at least I'm not alone lol.

Coco and Leesey - thanks for the tips, I'll give them a go - in a few weeks haha. X

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[Hope81]

I think me and oh trying to get enough before the baby comes lol we DTD twice yesterday

I get a little sore sometimes but we limit the actual ahem penetration to not more than maybe 5 min at once so I don't get sore. We jut have extra fun with other things and oh is more than happy

Jayjay you should try the edge of the bed, we tried it yesterday and we both loved it

 

[jacy90]

I'm never really feeling it atm either.. Feel guilty for my OH so I force myself to sometimes but actual penetration sorta hurts atm.
Anyways, re: positions, we try a sorta missionary style, but with me on my side nd a pillow under bump.
Edge of bed is good too, like Hope says!

 

[Pinktink23]

Hey JayJay
I know must feel horrible for you to know that theres a bump right there whilst your being intimate. i can honestly say i dont know what it is like to NOT want it. i have got more how would my BF say it ' like a horn dog' where as he is the one who is finding it a problem. thinking he will hurt the baby... After a 2week LONG wait i finally got my own way. He can no longer go on top because of the bump, normally i lean on something and we do it from behind, i dont feel pressure and he doesnt see the bump. i also wear my top so my bump is supported. The other way i have been 'told' is to place a pillow on your bump whilst in spooning position. This is suppose to feel comfortable for you and for your OH. i hope you figure something out JayJay. Its all trial and error least we all know its not going to ALWAYS be like this. Sending you hugs and dont get frustrated it will only bother you more.
Love Ali xx

 

[dollface79]

Missionary with a couple of pillows under my ass or doggy style only for us now! Everything else is just painful or impossible lol

 

[EssJayPea]

OH was freaked out at first as he imagined the baby jumping about like on the scan wondering what the Hell was going on! Lol x

 

[Lynds77]

Oh this sounds all too familiar! I just can't be bothered either JayJay, I only do it for him really & that's only bout once or twice a week. We have 1 very effective position, I'll see if I can describe it lol.
I lie on my back with my leg over him (he's on right) and he's on his side, manages to get in & both of us have the option of moving, he can touch u wherever too. If you move your left leg up you kind of grab his leg with both legs (if that makes sense) and push down which makes it better for him & quite intimate. Kinda like spooning but with me on back, bum a little bit tilted & kinda lying down the side of the bed. Gaah I've read it back & I wouldn't know what the hell I was on about!! Xx

twice a week??? jeesh, my OH wasnt even getting it that often BEFORE I was pregnant! haha. We used to only do it bout 3 times a month. Blamed it on my shifts but to be honest I just cant be fooked with it unless i am pished! haha.

 

[deedee84]

Oh this sounds all too familiar! I just can't be bothered either JayJay, I only do it for him really & that's only bout once or twice a week. We have 1 very effective position, I'll see if I can describe it lol.
I lie on my back with my leg over him (he's on right) and he's on his side, manages to get in & both of us have the option of moving, he can touch u wherever too. If you move your left leg up you kind of grab his leg with both legs (if that makes sense) and push down which makes it better for him & quite intimate. Kinda like spooning but with me on back, bum a little bit tilted & kinda lying down the side of the bed. Gaah I've read it back & I wouldn't know what the hell I was on about!! Xx

twice a week??? jeesh, my OH wasnt even getting it that often BEFORE I was pregnant! haha. We used to only do it bout 3 times a month. Blamed it on my shifts but to be honest I just cant be fooked with it unless i am pished! haha.

that sounds exactly like me...but i guess after 11 years were not gonna be at it like rabbits x

 

[Daydreaming]

I actually miss having the urge for hanky panky, really wish I wanted it more.
Every now and then I get an urge and think "Tonight is the night" - but by the time we are both home from work and pooped out I end up falling asleep before I have even hinted I was keen.

Mutual pleasuring is the option I prefer because I don't seem to be as wet down there when I want to be (but am plenty wet down there the rest of the time!). Would standing in the shower be any good? with your back to him?

 

[Karate Kid]

Twice a week is my current limit at the moment.... I only really enjoy it for a little while and then I staret getting dry and sore.... I have always loved me being on top but all I can currently focus on is my bump looking huge even though it isn't that big.... I think it's just the angel.... we usually end up spooning xx

 

[BellaRiven]

We have only dtd once since we found out, I just haven;t felt like it, I have 'helped' him get what he wants though which is tiding us over poor man dunno why he is with me

We generally 'do' it with me on my back and him on his side with my legs over the top of his thigh/bum area anyway so kind of like spooning but not and we can still look at each other and stuff, I think if we did this now it would freak him out though as when I lay on my ack bay moves loads and my belly looks like something from alien .


xxxx

 

[mumbum]

I think the end of the bed sounds like a great idea....never even occured to me! we have been struggling along with doggy and pillow under bump but it can be a little painful at times (a little deep i think? tmi lol) although we have just been told i have placenta previa which may account for the extra pressure during 'deep' sex.

I know what you mean tho.......i want to do it and am quite horny (on occassion) but its just sooooo much lke hard work at the mo that we lose the magic half way and then i'm just letting hubby get it over with! LOL
hope it works out for you and hubby hun xx

 

[wifeywifey]

I really enjoyed reverse cowgirl when pg wasnt a fan of it before, also not for everyone but we did it lots in the bath for last couple of months however we do have a large bath.

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[coco_cukoo]

Oh this sounds all too familiar! I just can't be bothered either JayJay, I only do it for him really & that's only bout once or twice a week. We have 1 very effective position, I'll see if I can describe it lol.
I lie on my back with my leg over him (he's on right) and he's on his side, manages to get in & both of us have the option of moving, he can touch u wherever too. If you move your left leg up you kind of grab his leg with both legs (if that makes sense) and push down which makes it better for him & quite intimate. Kinda like spooning but with me on back, bum a little bit tilted & kinda lying down the side of the bed. Gaah I've read it back & I wouldn't know what the hell I was on about!! Xx

twice a week??? jeesh, my OH wasnt even getting it that often BEFORE I was pregnant! haha. We used to only do it bout 3 times a month. Blamed it on my shifts but to be honest I just cant be fooked with it unless i am pished! haha.

Hahaha! Twice a week now, used to be 6 or 7 times a week so it has dropped lol. Maybe we're just nympomaniacs lol xx

 

[Hope81]

6 times per week not even during vacation

 

[Jayjay027]

6 times per week not even during vacation

Lmao!

I'm normally pretty 'up for it' so hubby doesn't know what to be doing with himself now that I'm not anymore.

And to think we went from newlyweds who were TTC (at it like bunny's basically) to a practical drought, he's a bit distraught.

To be honest, I'm pretty sure he's squaring himself away in the living room right now while I lie happily in bed watching CSI lol. As long as he doesn't come near me with it I'm not bothered lol xx

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[EssJayPea]

To be honest, I'm pretty sure he's squaring himself away in the living room right now while I lie happily in bed watching CSI lol. As long as he doesn't come near me with it I'm not bothered lol xx

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This made me actually laugh out loud! Until recently, my oh had been resigned to self love, too. lol xx

 

[Lynds77]

I walked in on mine doing it a few weeks ago cause had got off shift early. He nearly hit the roof with fright. Talk about awkward! Now I make sure i come through the front door VERY loudly and take a bit longer walking towards the living room. What really disturbed me tho was that he didn't have any tissue or anything ready so am not quite sure where he was gonna deposit it?!?