Pemsy, that would piss me right off too. I agree, put it about that it's a surprise for friends and family, and maybe say that your friends are organising it and didn't know about her so couldn't invite her?
Mellie, great to see you back again. Toddlers alone are hard work, never mind the rest! Yay for a good scan and low risk results, what a relief.
I can't get into the whole baby shower or gender reveal stuff, so have put it down to me being utterly boring and unimaginative


I do love seeing other people's bits though so pics please from any of you doing anything!
Mucho respect for the ladies staying team yellow, I have absolutely no staying power and need to know. I'm desperate to go out and buy a ton of pink bits so I need to scratch that itch by finding out its a girl or crack out the boy baby bits and buy a bit more if it's a boy.
Elfs Mummy sending love, hope you and baby are ok. A friend of mine had 3 chest infections and pneumonia during her pregnancy and baby arrived last week at 38 weeks, and is happy and healthy. It's hard not to worry but you're in the right place and they'll keep a close eye on you both. Sending lots of get well soon wishes your way