Sad news....

[BabyLover]

Hello Ladies

Sorry I haven't been on for a while, but I have had some sad news which has left me a bit on hedge and devasted!

Basically I was supposed to come on my period on 29th December, tested early about a week I say and tested postive 2-3 weeks bleed for 1 day (light, really light) on 30th December...took a pregnancy test again and then 3-4 weeks!!! I was over the moon, but a bit worried because I had bleed lightly for 1 day...so phoned the doctors and booked a appointment, told my partner and we was a bit pleased and a bit anxious as well. Appointment was booked for 4th January 2011 and the worse thing happened in between going to the appointment, I started bleeding heavy, I was so devasted!!

Phoned the NHS and spoke to a nurse, who advised me to re-take a pregnancy test in which I did and still coming up 3-4 weeks pregnant! I was advised to await for my appointment with GP. So I did and went to see the GP and she advised me I had early miscarriaged (checmical pregnancy I believe they call it) and that I wouldn't need to go for a scrap or anything like that because I was only 3-4 weeks and it was really early! But in fact I thought I was actually about 5 weeks by the time I seen the GP because it all depends when you count it from?!

I am sooooooooo devasted and have keep my distance on here, as I knew checking the boards would make me more upset. We was due to go for our appointment at the fertility centre, but we have been advised i need to wait until I have a proper period, so looking until end of January before I can make another appointment.

We have kept this to ourselves, because we don't feel there is any point in telling them, because it was over within a matter of days and I weren't far gone...so please can everyone who have me on Facebook please do not mention anything or even say anything regarding to this, thanks...

I just think to myself at the moment, that could of been my chance to be a mum and now it's over, so sad and don't know what to do, I am in a mopping around mode at the moment

x

 

[xXxBonnyxXx]

so sorry to hear this has happened hun,

let it all out - we are all here to support you any way we can,

Big hugs x x x x

 

[BabyLover]

Thanks Hunni

Appreciate it xx

 

[Rowesb]

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[MissJuly10]

So sorry to hear this, cannot imagine how you must be feeling.

x x

 

[Chazabell]

Big hugs coming your way honey xxxxxxxx

 

[BabyLover]

Thanks Ladies

Just feel so lost, I don't know if things will get better!?

Hugs Appreciated xxx

 

[Princess81]

no words can help Hun, I am so sorry. I know a baby is what you'd wanted for so long. Really hope the fertility clinic can help you and that you get a sticky xx

 

[mushy1]

Sosorry to hear this babylover................my thoughts are with you. My step daughter has just gone through something similar after trying for 2 years.... hers resulted in an ectopic and having one of her tubes removed......... I feel devastated and it wasnt even me going through it. I cant imagine how you feel loosing something so precious to you, anytime you need to off load we are all here.... lots and lots and lots of love and hugs xx

 

[ZMD]

Im so sorry Hun xx

 

[BabyLover]

Thanks Ladies

I am off out now, so be back on later. Thanks for all your words

x

 

[Vickyxx]

Cant even begin to imagine what you must be feeling, I hope with all my heart that things work out for you at the fertility clinic, and inbetween we are all here for you x x x

 

[amyjayne77]

so sorry xxx

 

[LoopyLouize]

Aww hun im so sorry. Big hugs xxx

 

[Kezzamunster]

I'm so so sorry to hear this

Big

xxx

 

[xshauna_bazx]

I'm so sorry and wish you the best of luck for the future x

 

[Olive]

I'm so so sorry to hear this. Sending you big hugs.XXXX

 

[karenandbump]

So sorry to read this x x x

 

[star fish]

Hi Babylover. I know exactly what you are going through. Have just had a miscarriage myself and it doesnt matter that you were 3 weeks or 5 weeks or 10 weeks, its devastating, your hopes and dreams die too. But i keep being told that once you have 'caught' you will 'catch again' much more easily. So try to keep your spirits up with the thought that you will hopefully be pregnant again soon and this one might be a lot stronger than the last one. xxxxx

 

[LouiseB]

OMG Donna

I'm so sorrry for you...

Don't worry, i won't mention it on FB or anything.

It's not the end though, don't think it it was your one and only chance because it wasn't.

Lots and lots of people have one mc but very few have multiple mcs