baby_j_21 WROTE: im sorry but it does matter how old you are when your decideing to have children im 21 and havin my first child and i have a really strong relation ship with my partner but emotionly it is hard been pregnant everythin goes threw your head and women do my headin when they are saying i dont know what to do now weather to keeep the child or not IM SORRRY BUT USE CONTRACEPTION ITS FREE its hard but if you are willing to have sex with sumone u are in a relationship or a one night stand WITHOUT CONTRACEPTION you should know what the risks are i planned my child and i would never ever think about abortion thats my opinion thats another life a human growing with a heartbeat dont punish that childs life because you aint ready if you aint in a longterm relationship and u aint stable enough to bring a child into the world use comdomssssssssss sorry if i have afended anyone but if you dont want to get pregnant keep your legs closed or use contraception ... IN REPLY: FOR YOUR INFORMATION I WAS ON THE PILL AND STILL GOT PREGNANT! UNLESS YOU FORGOT NO CONTRACEPTION IS 100% EFFECTIVE, THE PILL I USE IS 98.SUMTHIN% SO THAT MEANS 2 PEOPLE OUT OF EVERY 100 GET PREGNANT WHILST USING IT. IM SORRY BUT IM FED UP WITH PEOPLE JUDGING PREGNANT TEENAGERS AND SAYING USE CONTRACEPTION OR DONT HAVE SEX. IM NOT SAYING THAT ALL TEENAGERS USE CONTRACEPTION BECAUSE OBVIOUSLY THERE ARE THOSE THAT DONT! BUT WHY DO THE TEENAGERS THAT GENUINELY JUST GET CAUGHT OUT GET PENALISED ASWELL??? BECAUSE THEY ARE CERTAIN PEOPLE IN THE WORLS THAT ARE OBVIOULY SO PATHETIC THAT THEY SHOOT THERE MOUTH OFF BEFORE PUTTING THERE BRAIN IN GEAR!