On the month I was pregnant I got a positive on 10dpo so am not adverse to testing early
Last month I had a bit of a nightmare as I had a few false positives with clearblue and so told myself I wouldn't test early again
However I have an appointment tomorrow with my doctor to talk about my m/c and to ask for a blood test to check my progesterone level as my post ov temps seem a bit low somtimes.
Well it just so happens that I will be 10dpo tomorrow so was planning on testing in the morning so that I could tell her if I am and maybe she would take me more seriously. I thought if I get a bfn then who cares, at least I will get advise.
I just told my friend my plan (the only person I confide this stuff to) and she looked at me as though I was an idiot. She litterally said I was being stupid to test early after last months confusion. I felt totally deflated after speaking with her and now don't know what to do. I have been okay with testing early and getting bfn's - I've been doing this for 6 month ffs and have frankly been through worse in ttc than a few early bfn's. The only reason I got frustrated last month was because they were false positives. I wish I hadn't confided in her now, that look of 'let's not get our hopes up' is just what I can't stand seeing in other peoples faces. It's hard enough keeping yourself positive
Sorry to rant but Aggghhhh.
What would you do?
Becs
Last month I had a bit of a nightmare as I had a few false positives with clearblue and so told myself I wouldn't test early again
However I have an appointment tomorrow with my doctor to talk about my m/c and to ask for a blood test to check my progesterone level as my post ov temps seem a bit low somtimes.
Well it just so happens that I will be 10dpo tomorrow so was planning on testing in the morning so that I could tell her if I am and maybe she would take me more seriously. I thought if I get a bfn then who cares, at least I will get advise.
I just told my friend my plan (the only person I confide this stuff to) and she looked at me as though I was an idiot. She litterally said I was being stupid to test early after last months confusion. I felt totally deflated after speaking with her and now don't know what to do. I have been okay with testing early and getting bfn's - I've been doing this for 6 month ffs and have frankly been through worse in ttc than a few early bfn's. The only reason I got frustrated last month was because they were false positives. I wish I hadn't confided in her now, that look of 'let's not get our hopes up' is just what I can't stand seeing in other peoples faces. It's hard enough keeping yourself positive
Sorry to rant but Aggghhhh.
What would you do?
Becs
