Thanks for the replies girls, I gave DS 4 raisins after his lunch and he ate them perfectly and seemed to enjoy them too. Very pleased about that. I'm aware of the sugar thing too. I bought a food feeder and think I've used it twice for grapes, nothing else, DS is good with slices of apple (no peel) or kiwi slices etc (bit of a pointless buy really!) anyway I might try him with half pieces of grape instead of a whole one, see how he goes then, he loves cucumber and carrot sticks etc I'm just afraid of the small things and choking but the raisins (under strict supervision) went down well so I think he'd manage half a grape on his own. Awww little boy's growing far too fast!!