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Pregnant fiancé Ended it & I need help I don't get it

I agree with all the ladies here.. Give her some space, maybe even meet up with her parents alone so you can decide the right way to go about it then meet with her with her parents.. Try not to make it seem like your all ganging up on her though.. I suffer from depression and have done for years.. It sounds like she does too.. It could be previous relationships or childhood experiences affecting her.. I'd definitely seek some sort of councilling.. I doubt it's the pregnancy hormones I think she's just overwhelmed and scared.. You have a child already and this is her first but she has to take on your son too.. Which she knew about when she met you so she shouldn't really be able to use that as an excuse.
Your being very level headed, it's good.. And it's fantastic you have the support of her family..
I really hope you can work things out for the sake of your son and new baby.. Prepare yourselves for post natal depression, I imagine she would be getting that!!x
 
Just realized the date of the posts.. Have you sorted things out??
 

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