thanks so much for all your positive thoughts, I am still waiting to hear back about my results it feels like its taking forever. For Sleepy Sue: yes it is classed as similar but its not quite, you pick it up like a normal cold, from a cough or sneeze etc if you catch the virus at any other time in your life it does not harm you or even subsequent pregnancys, the problem occurs when you catch it whilst being pregnant.... so typical timing cant believe it. If anyone wants to know anymore just ask I think everyone should be aware of this as it really can cause serious damage to an unborn baby, i may have been lucky and caught it when baby had mostly fully developed though...this is what were hoping for.
Thanks again for all your support I will update when I know anything
xxx