Our little one has gone......

[Rjt_england]

After roughly 9 weeks - dont get it, understand it and never will

No symptons, scan a week ago was fine, minimal bleed / discharge so told OH (being overprorective) to go and now this

No explanations possible.......

Gutted, devastated and in pain

Girlfriend goes in monday for this horrible procedure......

Too painful to think about...,

 

[CARNAT22]

I know this is devastating but now is the time your partner will need you to be strong and be there for her.

Please don't use phrases like "horrible procedure" as you may make your partner feel more afraid.

It does happen, there are very rarely any reasons but eventually most people manage to get through it.

I have had 4 losses and would drown without my OH's love and support and strength.

x

 

[Rjt_england]

Just couldnt remember the abbreviation for the procedure and certainly wont say that to her either...... Am trying to support where i can, lots of tears shed by both of us, but we have our good times too......

We will try again soon, once this shock is over, tbh, was never focused on having kids but is amazing how when this happend it turns your life and heart upside down