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Opinions on OH going on a stag do!
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lisa1985
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I think I am just going to be brave and let him go, in return he has to take me and baby away for a weekend to a lodge with a hot tub!! I am hoping I will have some sort of routine by then and I have my parents and sister 10 minutes away and his parents 25 minutes away.
Clementine - yup indeed, the guy organising it likes to smoke weed and has cheated on his long term partner in the past!!!
Thank you every one xx
Clementine - yup indeed, the guy organising it likes to smoke weed and has cheated on his long term partner in the past!!!
Thank you every one xx
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My hubby had a 2 day stag to somewhere similar, it was before him and any of his friends had kids and was organised by a friend who liked to talk up the big I am about strippers etc! I thought it was all a bit much but I was having a spa night away so couldn't really say anything! They had organised a strippers evening for him while there as it turned out and he said it was thoroughly depressing, they were all a bit uncomfortable especially the mate who organised it lol and noone found it particularly sexy just very very awkward, he said he enjoyed the steak dinner that they had before hand more!!! The women had body guards stood around as you weren't allowed to lay a finger on them so there was no touching. The rest of his weekend was them all drinking too much Chezckoslovacian (sp?) beer and eating too many dodgy sausages from food waggons. They did manage a bit of sightseeing which I was impressed by. Anyway my point is it was very hard for him to cheat even if he had it in him to do so, the local women avoid lairy stag parties, they were all sleeping 3 to a room in the hotel so no room for anyone to bring back a woman anyway! So he was never actually in a situation where he would be thrust into being 'forced' into going along with cheating. I trust him 110% anyway so I knew I had zero to worry about even with some of his lairy friends going, and I ended up laughing at him about the stripper when he got back!!! He's never looked so rough and hungover as he did on that train platform when I picked him up and he's never hugged me as hard either, think he was relieved to be home 
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I'd let him decide for himself and support his decision either way - he can then return the favour when you want some adult time. Agree with the others re. Being sex deprived - if you have any doubts over his ability to keep it in his trousers then you really need to address the underlying trust problems.
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Id let him go but then make him treat you for it 
and say he owes you a night with the girls or a couple where he has baby hehe!
My BF has said no to a stag do about 4 weeks before I am due. Its a weird situation as they got married last month quickly so the stag do is late. But because it is so close to baby coming I said I would rather he was here as I have no idea how I will be at that stage and what if baby wanted to come early haha!
Although he didn't mind saying no as it was also a money thing, again one of these long weekends abroad but in madrid and costing quite a lot!
and say he owes you a night with the girls or a couple where he has baby hehe! My BF has said no to a stag do about 4 weeks before I am due. Its a weird situation as they got married last month quickly so the stag do is late. But because it is so close to baby coming I said I would rather he was here as I have no idea how I will be at that stage and what if baby wanted to come early haha!
Although he didn't mind saying no as it was also a money thing, again one of these long weekends abroad but in madrid and costing quite a lot!
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The underlying trust problems come from being cheated on in the past and my sisters husband cheating on her and leaving her with a 4 year old and 1 year old, when he went away with a friend, so part of me will always wonder. I do trust him, just not 100% and I will never trust any one 100% sadly. My main issue is being left alone for a weekend with a 2 month old and being a first time mum :s
Weeza - If I was due baby, I defo would not let him go! Just in case. xx
Weeza - If I was due baby, I defo would not let him go! Just in case. xx
I'm the same as MrsMeaney - my routine is always way better when OH not home haha. I wouldn't say no as he will just hold it against you at some point, if you let him decide for himself he might say no due to feeling guilty anyway. My OH's friends wanted him to go to Amsterdam in August just gone for a 3 day birthday trip about 6 weeks before my due date (which is today ironically) and he asked my permission and I just said I didn't mind as long as he could afford to do it without us being skint. He was happy with that but as it turned out his friend never bothered booking it as he kept putting it off and then it was too late and all forgotten about lol x
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