On to my next cycle.....who wants to join me? :-) x

[Laura07]

Good luck everyone on 2ww fx for you all x

 

[Kirstyt]

Well I'm pissed of with fella his night of tonyt and for next few days and I've told him I need his spermies and his reply " If I can be bothered im tired I've only had 2 hours sleep and it's ok coz we had it yesterday and day before" ahhhhhhhhh men all he has to do is give me his sperm that is it I will do the rest of hard work, he thinks it's so easy for us women, I've tryed hiding the fact I'm ovulating so he doesn't seem pressured but now he knows as I snapped at him and told him I'm bloody ovulating and he has no say in matter lol, I don't think I gonna win this one, sorry need to vent out x

 

[SharonP]

Vent away Kirsty!!!! I'd be frustrated too! it's soo frustrating when they can't be bothered and we need to dtd. I've been reading up about the pinkish/red spotting and despite the neg ov test today I'm going to get Dh to dtd the dance for the the next couple of days straight, just incase it was a sign of ov taking place....

 

[yummymummy80]

Hey everyone how are you all?

ive had a lovely day out with my mum today we went for lunch then went shopping.

Sharon I was in marks too and looked at the meals but couldn't decide what to get, what did you pick as the main?

so hows everyone doing with ttc? ive got the hospital tomorrow morning and that's when im doing my ovulation test

 

[SharonP]

Our meal is as follows: starter - Tomato and camembert tartlets, side - potato and mozarella bake, main Sea bass with Red chilli and coriander butter, Dessert chocolate hearts. Oh and Rosé Cava.

 

[Laura07]

Kirsty I feel your pain if I get told one more time "your only using me for my sperm I feel used" !!!

 

[Kirstyt]

Laura seriously I could just drug his drink get what I need then I'll be ok lol I'm like a mad women, soooo unfair of him and now I don't think I'll be in with chance at all, I feel robbed from the few days earlier that I've ovulated so now only means dtd cd 5.7.8 11.12 and got my positive yesterday which was cd 12, and now fella being a stingy arse and just thinking of him self lol, see now atleast if I had ovulated on cd15-16 like last month then I feel asif I would of had the extra few days to make sure enough sperm waiting, ahhhhhhh lol oh well looking on to next cycle now so 2 weeks need hurry well 12 days as my lp been 12 days past two cycles x

 

[Kelly1982]

Thanks kelly, I do a bit of exercise too keeps my mind off things!! I wouldn't recommend swimming for at least the first week of the 2ww just because you may be incubating a little egg and need to keep it warm (I did read this somewhere not just making it up!!) x

It's funny you mentioned that, I did think about it and wondered if it would have any impact on the little egg and spermies! Lol!
I normally use the gym anyway, it's just that last night I thought I would have a swim and then sneak into the sauna and jacuzzi!
Anyway, I hope you're all well, Kirsty, sorry to hear that your chap is playing hard to get! These men just don't seem to realise do they? Xxx

 

[Laura07]

I discussed with him they we needed to do it tonight and then he wouldn't need to do it again came home from seeing the girls and he says he has stomach ache I'm calling bs we have gone to bed and he has rolled over and gone straight to sleep!! Why can't he understand that timing is everything he thinks it will be ok to bd tomorrow and it won't make a diffeence rahhhhhhh

 

[Kirstyt]

Laura my fella been in bed since my little girl went sleep, he says I'm just going to lie down I'm not going sleep, within seconds he is snoring ahhhhh lol xx

 

[SharonP]

Men don't get how is or how important it is to us or how truly small our window of opportunity is!!!! Oh well... Dh nearly the same to me tonight, and then well let's just say things didn't happen anyway Oh well on to tomorrow and hope that it doesn't matter...

 

[Laura07]

Lots of deep breaths thanks for making me feel not so alone and your right Sharon let's hope it doesn't matter just feels so frustrating xx

 

[SharonP]

Yeah it is frustrating. You're definitely not alone, though.

 

[yummymummy80]

hahahaha ive just had the same conversation with hubby, I was reminding him we need to bd tomorrow night as its cd10 his reply??? "we only need to do it when you get a smiley face on an opk you don't need to before and after" seriously im flabbergasted he doesn't get that the days leading up to it are just as important and that u need to bd 3 days in a row after the smiley face.

Men eh?

 

[SharonP]

There must be something in the air - or maybe a lil complacency in the run up to Valentines day. I mean that is some seriously weird coincidence for so many of our men to be coming out with similar things at the same time.....

 

[Kirstyt]

I've tested again today and blank circle so think I've defiantly ovulated oh well here to next cycle x

 

[yummymummy80]

well I tested today too but got a blank face well we will see what this scan says today

 

[Kirstyt]

What's your scan for hunny x

 

[yummymummy80]

im at the fertility clinic, (you can see my story in long term trying to conceive) its because im on clomid you get scanned every month to see if its working etc

 

[Kelly1982]

I hope everything is ok for you today yummymummy!

I had another neg opk today but I expected that anyway!

I had a chat with my hubby last night and I have to confess, I told him a little fib! I told him it's going to be about 2-3 weeks until I ov (even tho it's only going to be around 9 days) and told him I want us to enjoy each other before the pressure of ov'ing! Lo and behold, we start bd'ing! At least he won't think I'm just using him for his spermies! Lol!

I know I told a fib but I think these men just can't cope with the pressure bless em! Xxx