OH -- don't know what to do

[star fish]

Hi Sweetie, sorry, not been around and missed all this. Just to say that I think you did the right thing and you got the ideal response so hopefully that is the end of the issue (apart from the councelling).

I know bexy said she didnt think people should use this to air their oppinions on porn in general but I think its very informative to know how much or how little other women tolerate and i've read all of your comments with great interest. I'm pretty liberal myself, but anything involving children or animals would be a complete deal breaker, they wouldnt see me again, ever. But saying that I have never ever heard of this crush thing and dont know how bad it is (I don't think I'll look it up!) so I assume its more wierd than nasty. There are levels in everything arent there, personally I love a blindfold but would you call that bondage? Bondage suggests something more extreme to me

 

[Jayceesmumma]

I cant bring myself look it up either and ive never heard of it before.. I couldnt imagine how someone would come across it..

I really hope the councilling works for him xx

 

[Lilelephant]

Just so everyone knows OH only looks at the bug stuff cos he loves animals! X x x

 

[Jayceesmumma]

I wouldnt be able to understand why.. your such a strong woman

 

[Lilelephant]

He says he has been looking at it since he was a teenager. Before the internet he thought he was odd, then it just fuelled it all

 

[Jayceesmumma]

bless him.. all you can do is support him thru the councilling and hope he gets to the other side with ease xxx

 

[Lilelephant]

Thanks hun.

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Keep us posted if you can/want to

 

[Lilelephant]

I will do x