Corrinne37
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... Goodness what a year.
Don't know why Im writing this thread really, just feel like I need to write my feelings down.feeling confused
1st November last year I got the shock of my life at my 12wk scan, my baby had died.
I had no idea. Having already a son who then was only 18mths. I just thought everything was going to be the same as it had with him. I had no signs, no bleeding, still had sore boobs,but my baby had gone.
We started ttc again the next month. I had fallen pregnant quickly with my son and with this last pregnancy so thought the same would happen again. But It still hurt so much inside and I couldn't believe how it had affected me, took a while to get my head round it all.
And I couldnt fall pregnant!!
How had it been so easy before. Each month I got my period, it was like my heart bleeding, a twist in the wound, a reminder of what I didn't have. My grief feeling stronger.
By May I was beside myself,I needed support and found this forum, it was great to have others to test with and see how many others were struggling on this journey too and how lucky I had been to fall pregnant with my son so easily, and so so lucky to have him. I was very naive to the pain of trying ttc.
Beg of August I got my BFP! Yay! But history repeated itself and the exact same thing happened again. I only found out a bit earlier as i went for an earlier scan, all that hurt and pain rolled up and thrown as hard as you like straight back in my face, knocking me back down to the floor.
Now I just feel so cold in the middle, I feel cold towards my OH, I have no motivation for BD'in, and this is obvs reflected in my body as physically I have no CM, dry , dry dry!
Do I need counselling? Or just more time?
Has anyone else had this ?just feeling cold and distance after MC?
The thought of being pregnant again petrifies me, Ialso feel Im getting to old and running out of time. xxx
Don't know why Im writing this thread really, just feel like I need to write my feelings down.feeling confused
1st November last year I got the shock of my life at my 12wk scan, my baby had died.
I had no idea. Having already a son who then was only 18mths. I just thought everything was going to be the same as it had with him. I had no signs, no bleeding, still had sore boobs,but my baby had gone.
We started ttc again the next month. I had fallen pregnant quickly with my son and with this last pregnancy so thought the same would happen again. But It still hurt so much inside and I couldn't believe how it had affected me, took a while to get my head round it all.
And I couldnt fall pregnant!!
How had it been so easy before. Each month I got my period, it was like my heart bleeding, a twist in the wound, a reminder of what I didn't have. My grief feeling stronger.
By May I was beside myself,I needed support and found this forum, it was great to have others to test with and see how many others were struggling on this journey too and how lucky I had been to fall pregnant with my son so easily, and so so lucky to have him. I was very naive to the pain of trying ttc.
Beg of August I got my BFP! Yay! But history repeated itself and the exact same thing happened again. I only found out a bit earlier as i went for an earlier scan, all that hurt and pain rolled up and thrown as hard as you like straight back in my face, knocking me back down to the floor.
Now I just feel so cold in the middle, I feel cold towards my OH, I have no motivation for BD'in, and this is obvs reflected in my body as physically I have no CM, dry , dry dry!
Do I need counselling? Or just more time?
Has anyone else had this ?just feeling cold and distance after MC?
The thought of being pregnant again petrifies me, Ialso feel Im getting to old and running out of time. xxx