NO ss NO early testing let's kick Ttc where it hurts !!

[lisey]

Millie, that sounds like a lovely meal, yum. I am going for a pizza lunch with old work friend today but I am having the pizza that is under 500 calories, its not my cheat day yet. I am sure it will still be nice, its pizza express and always been tasty.
I got a bfn this morning too at 10dpo, I am not actually upset as I didn't expect a positive xx

 

[millielaura]

Yum that sounds lovely I'm gonna eat healthily today lol still feel so full!

Sorry about the bfn
I took my last frer today and bfn, no more poas as only got a digi left lol so feel better now. Still have no idea what the stabs yesterday where and whether they could of been ov xxx

 

[Clairabelle]

I'm the same. I only this month started excersizing again, I've been too paranoid too since we started trying in case it stops implantation or something but felt so much better since starting again xxx

Exercise helps with fertility guys, especially in the stage up to ovulation apparently. I was going t the gym 2 -3 times a week when I felt pregnant with dd. I did give it up though once the morning sickness kicked in and haven't been back since !! Hmmm need to do more exercise I think xx

 

[millielaura]

I've been trying to do more this month so really hope it has helped ready for the clomid next cycle

I've never wanted AF to come so much!! I just want the cowbag here so I can start Clomid!! Xx

 

[Clairabelle]

Fx she comes soon. When is she due ? x

 

[angel6901]

Morning Girls
Sorry about the BFN's I got another BFN today at 11dpo
wish we just knew!! AF due Monday and I hope she comes early I'm just ready for my next Cycle, hate this part
I've been eating rubbish this week, after 2 weeks of really healthy eating and detoxing, so feel a bit crappy about that, back to it next week, gonna have a few treats this weekend then try to be good, still taking my Pineapple enzyme tablets and munching brazils and blueberries, but doubt its made any difference
my only Symptom is sore boobs apart from that don't feel pregnant xxxx

 

[millielaura]

Sorry about the bfn emma

Im due af monday too. Just had such stabs in the left now!! It really hurt and I dont even have an ovary there. If i mention itat my nhs appt on tuesday they have to investigate right even if they wouldnt want to help with treatment? It hurts and its not right since i dont even have an ovary there? I shouldnt be getting pains on both sides throughout the momth should i?
Nothing showed on my scan though so what would they do? A hsg or lap? xxx

 

[lisey]

I have been doing regular exercise, I used to avoid it as worried about implantation and everything but wasn't getting pregnant anyway so might as well get fit and healthy and have read exercise helps fertility.
Millie, the pain could be bowel related? Sometimes if you are constipated or need to go etc you can get stabby pains xx

 

[millielaura]

I had a scan a couple years ago for pain and they just said scar tissue.
But I shouldn't have to be in pain and more so where is this scar tissue and does it effect ttc.. the consultant didnt mention it at the scan though.
Def gonna say to nhs i want investigations. I need hsg anyway consultant says so surely they will do that or a lap and then remove the tissue?

It feels like that bruised feeling when you ov but its happening throughout the month and more often. Feels like someones kicking me in uterus ovary area and then stabs too. Usually lasts a few minutes at a time and keeps on coming.

has anyone ever had that or know what it could be? Could it be scar tissue from the op like sonographer thought at first scan? I don't have pcos or anything. Never been diagnosed with endo and they would of seen during my cyst op and told me wouldnt they? X

 

[millielaura]

Ooh I know that pain lisey its awwwwful haha hate it!
But nope not that is defo the front and more of a local area if that makes sense?
Sometimes feels like scraping like someones dragging a knife in there too? Used to think it could be something trying to implant but recently ive been getting it more often xxxx

 

[millielaura]

Does a hsg just show scaring in tubes or does it show all scaring? Xx

 

[lisey]

I don't know if HSG shows scarring, I think its more to check the structure of the uterus, that the tubes are in the right place (not stuck) and that they are clear. A lap would show scar tissue from my understanding. I didn't know scar tissue caused pain unless it was causing adhesions. Endometriosis doesn't show on ultrasound scans unless there is an ovarian cyst which there often isn't. I did have a cyst which I had removed xx

 

[millielaura]

Oh gosh how confusing. Well I had that cyst but it was removed so had a lap for that so they must of checked for endo too surely?
Whats the difference between scar tissue and adhesions haa? I feel so clueless xxx

 

[lisey]

If you had a lap for cyst removal then I would assume they would have seen endo if it was there. Adhesions are kind of sticky, can cause ovary to stick down or tube to stick to womb etc. That's my understanding of it anyway xx

 

[millielaura]

Ooh that doesn't sound nice!
Having a moment of being anxious this afternoon. Keep thinking what if I get another cyst and they remove that ovary too. And cause of my age no one thinks we are in a rush and we are. I've always wanted a big family and I think I'm gonna be terrified of getting another cyst and have them take my ovary until I have all the children I want.
I think if we get a number 1 here we will be trying for number 2 straight away. Xxx

 

[lisey]

Don't worry, they will do all they can to preserve your fertility and you had a scan recently which didn't show a cyst did it? xx

 

[millielaura]

Nope it didn't .
Lol I know I'm being silly and thinking of the worst situation in my head haha. Think its just in my nature to be like that haha ! I'm so distrusting now after them taking the other ovary without telling me theyd taken quite so much lol xxx

 

[lisey]

Its my nature too, think the worst, expect the worst in every situation. I have got a bit better recently though xx

 

[millielaura]

Lol OH just seen all the tests I've used in the bin and been like why are you using these so early when you know it will be a no, wasting money bla bla. I said I can't help it its an addiction lmao!
He said well you wont get an early "yes" and I said i might some people do. And he said well you're not. You shouldn't be testing till next week . Then he said we're struggling to have a kid at all you're not gonna get a "yes" early. Lol i was like theres not a correlation between the two!!

Lol men!! They don't get it haa!! Xx

 

[Sugarpop]

I've woke up this morning all bunged up also fell asleep at 9 so that's just brilliant!