NO ss NO early testing let's kick Ttc where it hurts !!

[Clairabelle]

The first day when it was mixed with cm, so was a very light red/pink colour I did think it was a bit odd, but yesterday morning when it got a little heavier it was more red with a couple of clots in, so not sure !! I might get a test today just to rule it out otherwise it's probably gonna end up bugging me lol.

Oooh Emma, even though you wouldn't possibly be ss'ing, hot flushes and nausea does sound good xx

Oooh Holi, fx AF does not arrive tomorrow. If you can hold out I would give it to as close to the weekend as you can. I'll be stalking xx

 

[Holi]

Oooh Holi I would of tested by now!!
I'm going to test tomorrow I think but ive got an ic in my bag so could be tempted to poas later xxxx

I know I really want to but I'll cry if it's a bfn and depending on when I ov'd it still could be too early so going to wait til I can defo trust the result! Plus it's getting expensive! Last time I didn't get a positive til CD30 so want to wait til something similar! And if AF shows in the meantime then so be it! X

 

[Emily0505]

You ladies make me laugh! You are doing a great job not symptom spotting!!



XX

 

[angel6901]

Emily! !!
It's called non symptom spotting

Low back ache is the newest non symptom

Clairebelle get a test peed on hunny!!! xxxx

 

[angel6901]

Ok ive just peed for the 6th time today and all ive had to drink is 1 green tea and a few sips of water!!!
Think i may have a uti xxx

 

[angel6901]

Millie where are you today???
Come on need you to be non symptom spotting with me xxx

 

[Lea_photo]

Excited for you girlies ��

 

[angel6901]

Thanks Leanne!
Did you manage to get the job done last night? Have you done another Opk today? xxxx

 

[millielaura]

I thinkk I'm 7dpo.. can't remember if I'm 6 or 7! I'm a day behind you emma!

Got some symptoms to report last night and today my nipples have been burning but on and off! A few waves of naesua but ignoring those as i always get those. And then emotional. Although its prob because OH didnt put the handbreak on properly last night and his car smashed into wall by garage so got to pay for that.
I didn't realise quite how much pressure it was paying privately because now I'm thinking well if we take money out the baby fund for the car we may have one less cycle because of the car and that could of been the cycle and we could end up not getting preg cause of the car. Also my friends bf was round and they had apparently been eyeing up girls when we where out and then yesterday on tv they where eying up this bikini girl. I know its nothing i wouldnt usually mind but struggling to conceive makes me feel less womanly and unattractive anyway and OH knows that so i felt it was disrespectful. So felt a bit moody and sad since yesterday.
Feeling better about the money side now, we're just gonna have to really hope nhs will help after all at my appt next week or if not then after 3 clomid cycles he said ivf anyway and so its either gonna happen by then or we would have to get either help from parents or credit to help us for that anyway so in grand scheme of things not gonna make thaat much diff. We're have enough to do a couple of clomid cycles and a hsg privately. But hoping nhs can do hsg in which case we would do clomid next cycle and then wait for hsg before paying for another clomid cycle..hopefully nhs will just be nice to us and let us have clomid off them too. Lol im rambling but yeah still gonna go private for next cycle of clomid and i pray that this is the one!! My friends 12 weeks next week so will he announcing to everyone soon

Hope everyones okay xx

 

[millielaura]

Thinking of maybe asking about iui at some point. OH has high count but "okay ish" mobility and motility so I feel iui may help us.. also because I get BV quite a bit and that can kill sperm. Would do an iui cycle with Clomid. So after my hsg if all okay that may be something to look into! Xx

 

[lisey]

Millie, sorry you feel emotional. Was your OH eyeing up women in front of you? I would go mad if my OH did that. Other women on tv or magazines don't bother me but if he did it right infront of me, my hand would be meeting his face!!
Hopefully you will be able to get help from NHS, I think its terrible if they don't.

So I have some non-symptoms. I prepared my lunch for today last night but couldn't eat it today as thought of it made me feel sick (i am a bit funny with food though and not hugely unusual) but then TMI alert: I have been constipated and after trying to go (sorry) I noticed some spotting, was peachy and red mixed in with ewcmish discharge. I do get spotting but not this early, usually around 10 or 11dpo. I used to get it earlier, maybe around 9dpo but I have progesterone for that now which stops it. 6dpo prob early for IB though? Prob my body being annoying xx

 

[angel6901]

Oooh Millie and lisey all your non symptoms sound really promising

Millie I'm sorry about your car, it's always something isn't it
My washing machine broke on Saturday so mil doing all our washing at the moment until we get a new one, I work full time as a imms nurse but my OH only works weekends at kfc so money is tight

And im sorry your OH had been looking at other women, men normally do that when they have another bloke with them, they don't understand how it hurts our feelings

Well I've definitely been peeing more than normal and my boobs feel a bit sore, on and off nausea and bloated feeling
I must admit I'm feeling positive
But will probably come down to earth with a big bump when AF arrives

Lisey sounds like IB you can implant at 6dpo xxxxx

 

[lisey]

Angel, your non-symptoms sound very promising and great that you feel positive
I think my body is just being annoying, I really don't think a bfp is on the way this month. I will be very shocked if it happens xx

 

[millielaura]

Oooh lisey that does sound promising to be ib!!

Emma sounds like you have some good symptoms too

Wondering if I have a uti. I go to the loo so much lol. Got some cystitis powder is that the same thing? Says dont take when preg so dont wanna chance it in 2nd week of tww as says take for 5 days so might take first week of af.

Looking for symptoms here haha but dtd before and it felt diff not sure how but did and then got such cramps for about a min after. Had this once before and it was the day id had a tiny bit of spotting at 7dpo and i felt lots of symptoms but then they went a few days later. Soo maybe its a good sign?
Might be to do with the bladder infection or uti or whatever it is i think i may have though

Bloody energy company tried to put our bill up by 27 pounds a month cause wed used more than our monthly payment in winter but obvs would be less than our monthly payment in summer but they didn't give us a chance to have it work out that way. But OH rang up and explained and sorted it to keep it on the same price and then review in a few months and maybe pay a little more a month then. But when he got off phone I burst into tears because I hate how stressed about money the private treatment is making me and we are only about to start Clomid.
If nhs wont help think we will appeal. I was just so sad as making me worry about money and usually people our age either 1. Get preg easily or 2. Get nhs help.
I feel we don't have the funds/savings we would have if this had happened in our 30s. So think I will defo appeal the nhs if they do say no. Just really hope Clomid is all we need. We will see. I mean I don't mind paying I don't usually feel the whole this is so unfair bla bla because its something we want so much but was stressing me out after the car that there was something else lol

So sorry about your washing machine Emma. That would be so inconvenient! Hate it when things break!! Xxx

 

[millielaura]

Good news is my smear came back totally fine! . I always worried a bit because of pain sometimes when dtd and the spotting I sometimes get. Also I didn't want Clomid to be delayed. So very happy at that!! xx

 

[Holi]

My boobs are very tingly now, even feels uncomfortable taking my bra off! If any material catches my nipple I'm in agony!

Trying so hard not to get my hopes up!! Aaaaargh

 

[millielaura]

Ahhh Holi that sounds so promising!! xx

 

[angel6901]

So glad your smear came back clear Millie
I'm testing tomorrow morning I've got a lot of ic's but ive decided I'm not going to get upset if Bfn
I'm only going to be 9dpo and I know it's too early
But I have an addiction haha xxxx

 

[Sugarpop]

I see not symptom spotting is going fantastically well!

 

[Sugarpop]

My boobs have been a little sensitive lately (sometimes they go that way for no reason) and I still have loads of CM. not a clue what is happening in there!