feeling a bit put out with granny today! She thinks blw is great and always goes on about how she did it with us when we were little etc. Tonight she was feeding lo when I got back from work. OH was home and had said that we put her pasta and mince on her tray so she can pick it up but granny kept it in a bowl, then spoon loaded it. We do spoon loading too but not when she can pick it up herself. Anyway, i came home and said the same as oh, to put it on her tray. Then lo had a bit of pasta in both hands and granny took one out to give her the spoon. Then lo got overexcited, like she does, and crammed her mouth full. She started to spit it out, as they do, and granny put her fingers in to pull the food out cos her mouth was too full. Without thinking i said don't put your hand in her mouth, she will spit it out herself. OH had said put her bottle of water on the tray and she will point to it when she wants a drink, she is great at doing that. Granny said she knocks it off so left bottle off!
Sorry for moan but just feel it kind of defeats the point of blw if you make the decisions for them and interfere!