it is such a sad story but you have every right to tell it. also you will find they do things alot differently in different countries, so god forbid it did happen again but could you ask what they would do if your waters went that early again in this country or have i confused the story, had the baby already died when your waters went, sorry about asking questions just thinking it may help you to see what they do in this country. with my 3rd child my waters broke at 22 weeks and luckily enough he stayed in till 33 weeks and is fine, but i have never experienced that before or after so as you say lightning very rarely strikes in the same place twice. so even though different situation was just trying to say history doesn;t always repeat itself, I always worry about my waters breaking ealy again but once i get past 22 weeks which i am now i relax aldot more, i reanlly hope your pregnancy is going great and thats why we all her to listen to other people awell as peopl istening to us.