Mmc

[Melly41]

Spoke too soon about feeling ok! Feel quite tearful this afternoon. I know its hormones as im due on but really thought i was ok about the neg hpt! I do feel gutted i suppose. Just trying to convince myself otherwise! Just wish the witch would arrive so i can just move on! I cant quite believe it could still be a couple of weeks! Thankfully have a really busy week this week, esp in the evenings as have two evening football matches to go and see and then its my DD's halloween party thurs and then have my best friend (who is also rach!) with her hubby and kids coming. I havent told her and wont be either. The distraction will be nice!

Hope you are ok and that you managed to dtd before your OH went to glasgow? X

 

[Rach beattie]

Awk melly sorry to hear u r upset it really is an up and down cycle. Hopefully this week of busy plans will keep ur spirits up. I find when ur busy even when ttc it really helps as it takes ur mind of it and I'm a great believer in stressing about ttc can hinder it from happening. Although it is easier said than done. Try and think in another two weeks u will be ttc again x

 

[Rach beattie]

He goes tomoro so hoping to squeeze one more in tonight haha. I still have no idea if I have ovulated so only time will tell x

 

[Melly41]

Awk melly sorry to hear u r upset it really is an up and down cycle. Hopefully this week of busy plans will keep ur spirits up. I find when ur busy even when ttc it really helps as it takes ur mind of it and I'm a great believer in stressing about ttc can hinder it from happening. Although it is easier said than done. Try and think in another two weeks u will be ttc again x

Thanks rach. Youre right being busy does help. I suppose i dont really know when i will be able to ttc next as i need my period first before i will ovulate again so could be 2 weeks for af then another 2 weeks to ovulate..urggh! Kids are back from school now so homework is helping to distract me a little! Ridiculous we spend ages hoping af doesnt come and tgen what feels like ages for it to arrive!

Hopefullt dtd tonight too will have covered you...sounds like hou might have ovulated over the wkd so tonight, i reckon, will just be for luck!

 

[Rach beattie]

I no it's very frustrating I think the the first month after mmc drags in as we just want it to be finally over. How r u this morning? That's oh away now and I managed to squeeze one in last night for luck haha x

 

[Melly41]

Feel bit better this morning thanks! Pink spotting this am so hoping af will arrive today or tom! At least i can move on then! Glad you squeezed one it before OH went! Have a good day! X

 

[Rach beattie]

I'm regretting not tracking ovulation now as I have no idea when to expect my period haha x

 

[Melly41]

I tracked my ovulation and still dont knoe when af will arrive! Bit more spotting but no af! I wonder if i could ovulate again if my af doesnt show? No idea....just a long waiting game! We are off out tonight and tomorrow night watching various football matches! This should take my mind off things!

I wonder if you are 2dpo or 3dpo?? It will go quickly this bit and by time OH home youll be at least 5dpo! Which is half way through! X

 

[Melly41]

I tracked my ovulation and still dont know when af will arrive! Spotting a bit still...well pinkish cm so hoping it will be by tom but not getting any usual signs! I wonder if i could ovulate agsin if my af doesnt show up for a few more weeks??

You should be 2 or 3dpo now? If you take the day of the crampy pains you had as ovulation how many days past that are you? By wkd you should be half way at least!

Busy tonight as out watching football and same tom night so distraction will help no doubt! X

 

[Rach beattie]

I have no idea as far a I read ur period is only after mc if ur ovulation is late? The crankiness was in Saturday so af should be here next weekend or beginning of the next week around 6th November. Keeping busy is good, we r the same this week with Ruby's birthday on Friday and party on Saturday. Oh says the weather is miserable in Glasgow today x

 

[Melly41]

Weather is rubbish but better than it was a few days ago when we had visitors! Hopefully your af will be on time unless you get your bfp 1st! Hope so and will keep fingers crossed! X

 

[Rach beattie]

He's staying in the go urban hotel and says it's lovely. I don't think I will catch this month but I'm ok about that. We go away with my grandparents every June and they r itching to get it booked but I'm scared to incase I do catch as I don't know when I would be due. Hoping to have af at start of November so we can then book x

 

[Melly41]

If you did catch this cycle it will be due early july so a bit tight! Im freezing watching scotland ladies international football match in the rain!

 

[Rach beattie]

That's what is stopping me booking and what's making me wish I had tracked ovulation better. That crampiness was on Saturday but I have no idea if that was it or not. What will be will be. O I don't envy at all tonight lol x

 

[Melly41]

That prob was ovulation.sounded like it x

 

[Melly41]

Think af has arrived as spotting heavier and more red. If it continues will count tomorrow as cd1! And so it begins again! Back home now but still frozen. Lying in bed with electric blanket on....feel like a 60 year old! Haha! X

 

[Rach beattie]

although on the bright side she wasn't weeks late and u can now go again. Hope u feel as ok as u can in this situation. At least if u fall this month u have an exact due date x

 

[Melly41]

Morning! Af definately here so officially cd1. Yes at least if im lucky to fall it will be easier to date it. Feels more crampy than usual but i had expected 1st af not to be the same! Hope youre ok too x

 

[Melly41]

I reckon you must be 4dpo...how are you feeling? I felt nothing all x3 i fell pregnant! Not sure how people just know! I was certainly not one of those people! X

 

[Rach beattie]

Hi melly I have been flat out and haven't got on. Yes it must be around that altho I don't feel anything, having a bit of creamy discharge but no signs. Hoping af will be here next weekend. How r u feeling now? X