Mmc

[Rach beattie]

I have no idea when to expect mine melly but I am so tired today x

 

[Melly41]

They reckon 14 days or so after ovulation so for me that would be sun/mon but have 'that feeling' that she is coming today/tom! At least my cb fertility monitor has arrived so will start using that on cd1 and see how i get on!

Any signs of ovulation yet? X

 

[Rach beattie]

Not that I can tell haha. I haven't ovulated in years with being on the pill so I don't nonehat to look out for. Was off the pill two weeks and had Ruby and then a break for 6 months last year but didn't get a period so no ovulation then and then one week of the pill this time and pregnant. So no idea what to expect with this ttc I have been very lucky all things considering. Hopefully she stays away melly x

 

[Melly41]

Thanks rach! Ovulation signs can include a bit of pain in one side (where ovaries might be) and cm can also be in abundance! Hope you ovulate over next few days x

 

[Rach beattie]

Don't think I'm ovulating just yet. Tests have arrived so going to do one soon(once I need to pee haha). Glad ur monitor arrived but hoping u don't need to use it too long if at all x

 

[Rach beattie]

Completely negative!! Now just to ovulate haha (really hoping I do) x

 

[Melly41]

Thats great news! You might have been neg for a couple of days so ovulation might be just around the corner!

Ive still got mild cramps and lower back ache...very familiar feeling!! I know af will get me just before i go back to work on monday! Typical! X

 

[Rach beattie]

No fun melly I think I will be sort of glad to get af soon as it should mean my body is back to normal I'm just really praying it doesn't disappear for months like this time last year. Yes I think it will have been negative for a while so I guess we will just see. Keep positive ur rainbow is waiting for u x

 

[Melly41]

Thanks rach. Yours is too! Hopefully youll get lucky quickly again...you are obviously very fertile so hopefully wont be ling fingers crossed. Going to have a large glass of wine tonight!

 

[Rach beattie]

Well I'm on a hen do on Saturday and not back to Sunday so knowing the luck I have had recently I will ovulate then haha. What will be will be. Yes relax and enjoy a glass of wine while u still can. I keep eating pate before I can't again haha x

 

[Melly41]

If you did ovulate sat...as long as you dtd before you go (fri eve) and when you get back on sunday you should be covered! Hope you enjoy the hen do! At least you can drink!

 

[Rach beattie]

Well melly I think I'm def going to be out this month as oh has to go Scotland on Tuesday morning until Friday for work lol x

 

[Melly41]

You coupd dtd tues am and fri eve and hope that its enough? You could ovulate tbh before tues. As long as you dtd tues am and fri pm this might just be enough. Youd be really unlucky to ovulate in the middle when he is away! Tell him to pack a raincoat...its wet up here!

If you dont catch this month at least we will both be in the ttc stage agsin. Af not here yet but can feel she is close. If by any miracle she is not here by monday i will do a test to rule it out! X

 

[Rach beattie]

I'm going to try for Friday, Sunday and Monday and that should be me haha. Ur right next month we have our first proper cycle and we will be in it together. Hopefully we get to be bump buddies again he's been a few time last usually up to the highlands he loves it over there and always sends me beautiful pictures to make me jealous x

 

[Melly41]

Highlands are lovely. We are in glasgow so not too far to travel up there. We go to highlands regularly. Would be ace to be bump buddies.id love that! Fri, sun and mon should be fine bit if you feel you might be ovulating sun/mon, fitting in a quickie before he goes tues am might be worth it! X

 

[Melly41]

Confused about when to test as have no idea when af is due. Im assuming it is due sun/mon which is 14 days after ovulation but ive read af could be later than usual. Im usually 25 day cycle but hoping it will be 28 and no longer! Feel scares to test monday if af hasnt shown up....in the likelt event it will be a bfn! Hopefully af wont be cruel and arrive later than monday.hopefully she will arrive before monday so i dont start to hope! I wonder how long people wait before testing after a mc? X

 

[Melly41]

Just read that af might be 4 weeks agter hcg back to 0....that means my af might not be due for 2 weeks! No idea when i could test....argghh! No im not going to stress! Will test monday if af hasnt got me and if a bfn then will leave it till the weekend!

 

[Rach beattie]

I'm so not good with all this stuff lol. Surely the late period only happens when ovulation hasn't happened yet? I thought everybody had af around two weeks give or take after ovulation? It's such an annoying process unfortunately. I would take a test around Wednesday if u can hold out until then. I don't think I am showing any signs of ovulation so god knows when it will be. I do remember when I got pregnant this time I had sore boobs and I thought I was pregnant but tested negative then the soreness went away and came back two weeks later which was when I go bfp so I'm wondering if that was ovulation for me. If so I have no sore boobs yet lol x

 

[Rach beattie]

Ps it turns out darren is going to Glasgow lolx

 

[Melly41]

Fab! He'll enjoy it despite not being to understand to locals! I still cant and been here over 3 years!! Haha!

If i can hold out.will wait till wedd.i shoupd be 16dpo then...i bet i cave tho on monday! X