Hi everyone Opinions welcome! I have wanted a baby for about 5 years, which I have always made clear to my husband. The day after we married last year, he said he was ready to start a family, but since then he changes his mind with the wind! In January, I decided to come off the pill and told him that if he didn't want a baby, he would have to finally take responsibility for contraception. I've also got an ovulation calendar on his computer so he knows when I'm fertile, but he still never uses protection. If anyone questions him about starting a family, he says he isn't ready - so why isn't he trying to prevent me getting pregnant? I'm really confused! He is fantastic with my 3 year old nephew and would make a great dad. Has anyone got any advice?