Getting pregnant was never in the plan. My husband already has an 11 yr old from a previous marriage and didnt want another. He has taken a long time adjusting to having another baby. We are both older, I am 38 and he is 39. I am 7 months pregnant. Well I thought he was adjusting but he isnt. He drank a bit much and told me that he doesnt want this baby. He is dreading it. He wishes he would of pushed for me to get an abortion in the begining. And that he doesnt think he will ever bond with it. He is a great dad to his daughter. He sees her every weekend. Loves her to bits. So I cant understand how he can have no feelings towards a child with us. I have been so alone through all of my pregnancy. All he sees is a the cost of a baby. Did anyone else have this happen?