Ladies that is me confirmed as having a miscarriage. Have just been for a scan and had it confirmed. No need for a d & c as it has all gone. They said that I can bleed for up to 10 days and that should be it. They recommended to take aspirin and keep taking folic acid. They would not be able to investigate unless I have a 3rd miscarriage, here hoping it does not get to that. She also said that we can start trying as soon as I stop bleeding if we wanted to as the chance of the egg being fertilized is higher!!!!
As if this was not enough I was so angry this morning. When I went to the out of hours clinic on Saturday morning (very early hours), they said that there was no one there to scan me and that I should phone epu first thing this morning and they WILL see me. So at 9am I phoned them explained what happened and they said because I had a scan booked for tomorrow they could not see me. My oh had today off to come with me, that even fell on deaf ears. They told me to phone the other hospital to see if they could see me. This happened when I had a bleed at 7 weeks and the other hospital said they could not see me. Well I phoned them anyway and I spoke to the same woman. She said exactly thesame they could not see me till tomorrow. Was not gonna let it lie, so phoned my midwife and she was raging, after about half hour she was getting no joy either so was resigned that I would have to go alone tomorrow. My friend was having none of this and phoned the head of midwifery at the second hospital complaining that this was not right. I then got a phonecall from the first hospital who all of a sudden had a cancellation 30 minutes after they are due to close. Sorry for the rant xxx
As if this was not enough I was so angry this morning. When I went to the out of hours clinic on Saturday morning (very early hours), they said that there was no one there to scan me and that I should phone epu first thing this morning and they WILL see me. So at 9am I phoned them explained what happened and they said because I had a scan booked for tomorrow they could not see me. My oh had today off to come with me, that even fell on deaf ears. They told me to phone the other hospital to see if they could see me. This happened when I had a bleed at 7 weeks and the other hospital said they could not see me. Well I phoned them anyway and I spoke to the same woman. She said exactly thesame they could not see me till tomorrow. Was not gonna let it lie, so phoned my midwife and she was raging, after about half hour she was getting no joy either so was resigned that I would have to go alone tomorrow. My friend was having none of this and phoned the head of midwifery at the second hospital complaining that this was not right. I then got a phonecall from the first hospital who all of a sudden had a cancellation 30 minutes after they are due to close. Sorry for the rant xxx
Its horrible. There definitely isnt enough support for Ladies who miscarry. They probably see it all the time and get desensitised to it, but that doesnt help the individual does it. I got treated ok myself but i cant believe theres no followup after operation. Thank goodness for your friend not letting them get away with it. 
and also sorry that u had to go through all the crap to get a scan I also had this with my first mc as it was may bank holiday they said I had to wait a week!!! No chance I said I can't love with not knowing what's going on so I rang another hospital who asked me if I would be going to that hospital with the pregnancy which I replied no as was to far so they said well no we won't scan you!! I was besides myself with worry and anxiety I had to wait that whole week and then they said they were not sure as I could only be 6 weeks so I needed another scan a week later had that n they still went sure as sac had grown n was summet inside but week later had it confirmed I had had a blighted ovum those 3 weeks were the worse 3 weeks of my entire life it was horrendous living in limbo but in my heart I knew it wasn't going to end well and I was right,take it easy and take care of ur self and give yourself time xxx
