May 2017 Mummies *NEW*

[Eryinera]

Erm. Ok. so I think it depends on the trust you and your oh have with each other. If it's making either of you uncomfortable then the person messaging should stop or at least involve their partner.
I'm going to pm you. x

 

[Piglet's Mama]

I think it would both me too, what could he possibly be texting another girl about all day long and into the evening when he's not at work?

Ask him and say it's making you feel uncomfortable and how would he feel if the roles were reversed.

 

[kabuk1]

I would talk to him about it. My best friend was going through a lot a few years back and we were texting all hours of the day and night, over the xmas holiday and I spent several nights crashing at hers to make sure she was okay. I openly talked about it with my wife. Because we were so open, there were never any fights about it and she was very understanding. She knows my best friend quite well and knew we were only friends, but I'm sure if I wouldn't've talked about it that it could've made for some unpleasant thoughts from her and awful needless arguments. If they are just friends, then he should be able to be open about it. Letting you know who he is talking to is a start; he may not realise he needs to say more.

YAY! I'm now 12 weeks and have my scan in 4 hours!

 

[Eryinera]

Good luck to all scans today x x

 

[lisey]

I second that. Best of luck for all the scans xx

 

[Emily0505]

Good luck for today's scans

XX

 

[Loubalouba]

Yes good luck and enjoy! Can't wait to see pics x

 

[snowbee]

Nikki it would bother me too if it was all day every day and he didn't talk about it with me. I could understand if it was a one off and they had something important coming up at work but it should go on everyday. My oh nearly always tells me who has been messaging him, if we are together and a message arrives we often read each others depending who is closest to the phone. I've also been cheated on and what your oh is doing would freak me out.

Ohh marmite. I hadn't thought about that until you mention it, now I want to try some too. I've had a bit of a thing for honey on and off the last few weeks.

Lots of scans today, good luck everyone I'm looking forward to hearing from you all

 

[lisey]

I just had marmite on toast. Yum xx

 

[nikkix86]

thanks girls everytime I bring it up it ends in an argument. good luck for all the scans today!

 

[Leighwiltshire]

morning Ladies,

good luck at your scan today!

i have been cheated on and i cant trust or struggle to, every little thing i check up on my OH, he does text his work colleagues and ive mentioned it to him and he has said its strictly work related. i have to believe this until im proven otherwise. speak to him about it, tell him your not happy.

 

[Leighwiltshire]

thanks girls everytime I bring it up it ends in an argument. good luck for all the scans today!

oh mine always ends up in an argument too or it being moved so its my fault and im the one in the wrong for checking his phone etc!

some men dont understand we dont want to lose them.

mine has even thrown the i want a DNA test at me when ive brought something up

 

[nikkix86]

I don't know why they are so defensive oh has changed the password on his phone now to stop me.snooping I've always been open never had a lock on my phone if he wanted to look I would let him I have nothing to hide. if he asked for a dna I'd go mad lol

 

[Leighwiltshire]

i think men try to give it the big'un thinking they are all macho etc.

oh we argue he changes his passcode on his phone i leave mine the same, he changes it back a couple of days later, i just say if you have nothing to hide why are you so defensive, he response is im not having a woman tell me what to do at my age!!

i have a massive bug bear about porn and him masturbating. i hate it i tell him thats what im for hate the thought of him getting off over another woman! this causes arguments he tells me he doesnt but i know he probs does! i think men like girls attention in any form!

my OH is 43 and im only 25 he should count his lucky stars

 

[Eryinera]

I need a wee but I'm feeling nauseous.... I think I'll hold it in a bit longer lol

 

[Leighwiltshire]

I need a wee but I'm feeling nauseous.... I think I'll hold it in a bit longer lol

dont hold it for too long! i did this and had pains in my bladder all day from it!

take a bowl with you haha x

 

[nikkix86]

I used to hate that as well leigh kinda just accepted now that all men do it lol and I've started doing it some times.as oh is quite selfish in bed! lol

my nausea is better today so far. it's oh''s birthday today so I need to be nice today lol

 

[Eryinera]

I watch porn with my oh so that's never bothered me lol. Plus now he has a collection of our vids which he actually prefers but I don't lol. so I guess I'm the one who watches others more lmao. I don't know things like that don't bother me but you need to be able to have romantic time too.

 

[nikkix86]

we made a vid a little while ago lol he loves it but it makes me cringe haha

 

[Leighwiltshire]

i think everyone has made vids, he loves it i just think oh i dont look good from that angle lol

maybe i need to be a bit more open minded and give it a go myself!! lol