May 2017 Mummies *NEW*

[xjdx]

I'm up again next week for a scan, Wednesday at 2pm xx

 

[nikkix86]

glad everyone's scans have gone well good luck for the ones next week I don't like towie but I've been watching the mummy diaries it's making me want the baby here now lol

 

[lisey]

I have been watching too nikki and one born too xx

 

[nikkix86]

is one born on again?

 

[lisey]

No I am watching it on all4. I didn't watch the last series as found it too difficult xx

 

[nikkix86]

oh ok hun I love that programme so fed up with oh I'm really sorry with all the rants honestly don't know if I can do this anymore

 

[lisey]

It's ok nikki. You can let it off your chest with us xx

 

[nikkix86]

we went out last night for Halloween and he got so drunk again he hardly spoke to me the whole night or went anywhere near me. he wet the bed again in his sleep so I woke up in a wet bed. all his family hate me and the baby we were meant to go to his mums for Xmas but think I'll just stay at home with the kids

 

[Eryinera]

Omg what a div. I dunno how your putting up with him I'd be fuming if my husband did that. That's just not on at all! I get mad enough when he doesn't flush the loo!

 

[lisey]

Oh no. I couldn't cope with that. He sounds like he needs to grow up big time. It's ok to go and have a few drinks but to get to the point of wetting the bed! That's ridiculous. I personally wouldn't want to be with him as it doesn't seem he is offering you anything in the way of love and support. I do understand that it's easier said by an outsider though. Has he at least apologised? Xx

 

[nikkix86]

no he hasn't said anything about it just took the sheets off. I've popes out for a couple of hours on my own just to clear my head it's becoming a regular thing now he's turned all his family against me aswell

 

[lisey]

That sounds horrible. You deserve better xx

 

[xjdx]

So sorry your oh is acting like that Nikki. Mine used to chat a lot of poop to his mum, we learnt to speak to each other first. I used to think she was a right witch but we get on now. I kicked my hubby out this year and still managed to accidentally fall pregnant. He went to live with his mum, then his mum knew what I was putting up with. He has got better though now x

 

[kabuk1]

Sorry you are dealing with that Nikki. You really deserve better. We are all here for you when you need a rant. It's so much better than keeping it all in.

 

[snowbee]

Nikki he sounds like a nightmare. Looking from outside I would seriously be considering going it alone, but you are the one in the position so it is your choice, what do you think you would least regret doing? Staying with him or forging it without him? Do you have someone you can talk your options through with who won't influence you either way? I hope you can either give him a kick up the backside and kick him into line or kick him out.

I can't get over how tired I am. I sleep really well at night and feel great in the mornings but by lunch I'm ready for bed and by evening I'm struggling. I'm getting fed up of it as I've got things to do and get on with! Hopefully this will ease at some point and I can get on with my to do list!

Anyone else thinking about baby's room etc? We have two spare rooms and need to choose which to use and what to do. They are both decorated nicely for a nursery already, one is green and one is yellow, so a few small touches would jazz them up nicely. One had the loft access in, so I'm thinking the other room for practical reasons of using the loft when they are sleeping. How long are you supposed to have them in your room at night for?

 

[nikkix86]

thanks girls he's literally spent all day on the sofa while I've cleaned the house, done the food shopping and clothes washing, sorted the kids out and done dinner anyone would think he was pregnant and not me! not sure who I could talk to really. the midwife gave me a number for depression in pregnancy maybe I'll phone them for some advice. nothing I say to him sinks in he's just too immature

 

[lisey]

He is getting an easy ride. Going out and acting like a teenager with no responsibilities and then gets to lay about all day whilst you do everything. That's really not fair on you. It's no wonder you are so annoyed and frustrated xx

 

[nikkix86]

tell me about it I'm even looking after his daughter today because he can't be bothered to get off his arse. can't do this anymore

 

[lisey]

My goodness nikki. You are a better woman than me. I really feel for you xx

 

[nikkix86]

rant over lol thanks girls. need to decide what I'm going to do because I might as well be single