Hey all,
Scan done! Bit of a wobbly experience, not sure if my sonographer was new or training, but she was SILENT throughout the majorityof the appointment which just made me nervous. Then baby was being a monkey so she made me go out and have half a wee, then when she still couldn't get the measurement she made me have my whole wee then go for a walk! Then when she STILL couldn't get it she made me cough... then cough some more.
She was still quiet throughout most of it so I was like, is all OK? And she was like, yes so far so good! Then said she needed a specific nose measurement - something to do with a flat nose indicating Downs Syndrome. Then she said she wasn't sure if the baby's nose looked too flat so she would get a colleague to look... We had to sit in the waiting room fretting. Then she comes bouncing out, "all fine! Off you go for your blood test!" (She'd said if she couldn't get the measurements I'd have to go for a quad test sometime between 16-20 weeks). So I said, "are you sure?" And she was like, "yeah it's all fine, my colleague is happy with all the measurements" She was so fucking blase and I was so stressed out I just burst into tears. I looked like the poor woman who's had the devastating news...
So she brought me back in to the room and said, everything is fine on the scan, my nuchal fold measurement is 1.1mm which I know is low but she said without the blood test it means nothing so I'll get the results in 2-3 weeks. But she was like everything I needed to see I've seen today.
Was just quite an upsetting experience really and it made me quite sad. I feel like there's doubt in my mind about if the baby is OK. Will just have to see what the next few weeks bring as it's all out of my hands anyway xx
Oh and she's also dated me at 11+4 so she's put me back 3 days xx