Me and my fiancé are wanting to plan a date for our wedding but I don't get on with his family and they don't like me much either (see previous posts if you'd to get an idea of what they're like..) they've even been rude to my parents and have never tried to be friendly even though we have a baby Also, to give you an idea : OH parents are his biological grandparents but he calls them mum and dad . His auntie is classed as his sister and his biological mum is also a 'sister'. They kept this from him his whole life until a couple of years ago when a drunk relative told him. They will not address this issue and are happy to continue this on with my baby which makes me really uneasy and upset as I don't want to lie to her about her famoly *hope you are still with me after all that * Has anyone got married with issues with OH family ? Or more importantly should even be getting married with all these problems with his family ? The idea of them being there gives me bad anxiety and just makes me think marriage isn't the answer especially when we are not really going to be joining two families together ..