Hi guys, I'm not really sure what to write and what advice I'm looking for, maybe its a need, just to talk, to someone. For weeks now my partner and I have not been getting on at all, rowing about everything, big things and stupid things, that escalate out of control. It has got to the point where I am thinking of moving out. He is not aware of this and even if I did say anything, he would probably not take me seriously anyway, saying I was using threats against him. For a long time I have felt unhappy and felt like he was being unfair, its a long story really but things like, its always me that gets up to see to Jack in the night because he says once he is awake he cant get back to sleep. I always bath jack, occasionally he will, but only if I'm going out or something. We live in a house that's quite expensive due to his ex wife and his income, we are now on a much reduced income, living here and always struggling financially but he wont move or see my view that a fresh start would be good, being happy is more important than money etc etc. I feel like my feelings don't count. There are also the silly little things like sometimes he is here all day with jack when I'm at work, I come home and the dishes are not done, when I ask him about it he says 'well they are not my dishes' so as well as being at work all day, I have to do dishes, washing, bath Jack etc etc-when he has been at work he expects tea cooked, to have a bath and relax straight away!!! (he does cook for me when I have been at work) Just recently he blames me for everything, I don't feel like he is being very supportive of my feelings - I came off anti depressants when I found out I was pregnant and have really struggled, my new job is horrible, and i'm just very unhappy. I have been no angel either, and have been very stressed and angry due to being so down, but I just want him to understand. I have also been thinking about my ex husband a lot as I always regret giving upon the marriage (this was a long time ago now) but I have recently thought about trying to contact him - surely this is not right. I feel trapped as we are expecting our second baby, I feel like we should separate for a bit but not sure if I'm strong enough, I want to look at him with love but he just annoys me, we just don't respect each other any more and I just don't know what to do!!!