Bit of background; my husband is an Internet gamer, he's played the same game since before we met and it takes up a lot of his time. He uses a headset and talks to the guys he plays with and his computer is in the study, TV is in the living room. So a lot of the time when we're home, we're in separate rooms. When we first fell pregnant, he was super excited and couldn't wait to tell everyone. He's been to mothercare with me and looked at prams and cots etc. He seemed to be on board with me and generally on the same page. The past few weeks he seems to have gone into a shell, he's really distant from me and doesn't seem to want to talk about the baby. He was supposed to take me to a baby fayre today but instead had a few drinks. When we woke up I asked him what the plan was and he had a go saying he didn't want to do anything cause he was hungover, he got up and went downstairs , I stayed in bed. That was two hours ago, I think he might have forgotten I'm even here. This seems to be a daily occurrence where he's on his computer and I'm alone. Don't get me wrong nothing has changed in the sense that he's always played his game for hours on end, but now I'm pregnant and need a bit of support it's really getting to me. I just feel really lonely and I told him this and he laughed saying he's only in the other room. He doesn't seem to understand he's there chatting with his online mates 24/7 and I have no one to talk to. Sorry for the long post ladies, I think I just need a rant!