Life just got a whole lot sh!tter

[trixipaws]

aww so sorry iv only just seen this. i hope u can hav more days like ur second post on this thread, less like the last 2 and NO more like the first one
i wish i could help, but im young, inexperienced and have no wisdom for you. i really hope things look up for you.

 

[tracyM]

deleted because of the bunny boiler

 

[MissSara]

Well you tried and your the better one for taking him back and trying to make it work, he on the other hand is just a coward. He'll realise one day what he as lost and walked out on and soon the kids are going to make up thier own minds as they are getting older. And he won't like the outcome of that.

Ive been following your thread and i think you are are great woman, i think you are brave and strong and will put your kids first and above everything.
Leave him to live his sad little life with her, they make a great couple and will never acheive what you have...... being the best parent ever.

I wish you the best of luck with everything you do and when the time is right theirs always someone out there for everyone, and you will realise why on earth you spent all your time with him......lol.

 

[lfc_sarah]

I dont see how you could choose anyone over your kids...

I dont have one in the outside world yet...
But even now i wouldnt

Seems like your better off without him!
youll probaly be happier in the long run aswel xxxx

 

[Tara & Liam]

Now you can get on with your life and show the world what a strong confident woman and mother of 4 beautiful children.

 

[mamichuli]

Good for you girl... it is sad when you have to give up; but I know that feeling of calm you speak of. I reached that stage and that was when i started to look to the future. My ex decided not to see his kids either, but never had the guts to say that, just stopped seeing them

Some men are like that, I cant understand it, but it happens. His loss, the children will eventually reach their own conclusions



Lisa

 

[annem]

 

[Urchin]

How are you Tracy?

Hope you are OK

 

[DaisyRose]

Hi Tracy,

I've just been reading your thread and I must say, I think you're a really strong person. You've given him every chance possible and it sounds to me like he's making a very big mistake which he'll undoubtedly severely regret! I don't know what it is about some men - they're just so damned weak! From what I've understood, I do think you'll be better off without him in the long run; hopefully he may grow up and resume some kind of relationship with his children.

I'm currently going through a similar thing - have been with OH for 11 years but now he is saying he is unhappy and threatening to leave. I have persuaded him to go for counselling (which starts next week) and as far as I know (and I think I trust him on that score) there is no one else involved. However, I'm going from one emotional extreme to another - terrified of losing the closeness we have, bringing up 3 kids on my own (parents live in Spain) yet when it is really tense I start to think of how much better it would be for all of us. It is really really difficult, and it is something I imagine only time can heal.

Stay strong

 

[tracyM]

deleted because of the bunny boiler

 

[Urchin]

great news Tracy! (except for the bunny boiler bit)