I come from such a male dominated family that before I got pg I always thought it'd be a boy. When I found out I was pg I was so convinced it was a girl that I was trying to convince myself it was a boy so if it was I wouldn't be so shocked. My OH was totally convinced from the start it was a girl and he admitted after we found out that although he would have still been pleased with a boy he always wanted a girl, so he was over the moon! The only person who thought it was a boy was my MIL and when we told her it was a girl her response was "oh, well that's a shame!" I don't think I really had a preference but I am glad it's a girl, and the clothes for girls are so much prettier!lol
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When I found out I was PG I thought it would be a boy, but recently I have started to think that it is a girl - I don't know why. My mum thinks that it's a girl but everyone else thinks that it's a boy. I don't mind one way or the other what I have, if it's a little girl, I'm blessed with one of each if it's a boy I am going to give it my brother's middle name. My brother for those who don't know was tragically klilled in a car accident in April.
I get frustrated with people who say oh you will be wanting a little girl this time then won't you. My MIL asked me this morning if I would be disappointed if it was another boy.
When I was having my son, I knew it was a boy all the way through being PG and I was right. It's really wierd!
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I get frustrated with people who say oh you will be wanting a little girl this time then won't you. My MIL asked me this morning if I would be disappointed if it was another boy.
When I was having my son, I knew it was a boy all the way through being PG and I was right. It's really wierd!
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I've just had to have a conversation with my OH about this subject. He thinks boy and I am a bit unsure.
At the beginning I really wanted a boy and because of this talked myself into considering that it would be a girl (mostly because of sod's law - I was sure it would be a girl because I thought I'd prefer a boy). I came to the realisation that it is the pink aspect of having a girl that I don't like not the concept of having a girl. I was quite a tomboy when I was young and really didn't think I would be able to relate to a girly girl. However after a lot of thought, I figured that I would be happy to have a daughter and if she really likes pink, well that's no big deal - so long as OH and I bring her up to be a responsible, happy and healthy child, I would be a very proud Mum
Just for the record, I also have no problems if I have a son and he likes pink
However this has left me with complete uncertainty as to what gender it is! We have a boy's name ready and are halfway there on a girl's name but I still can't wait to find out. Hurry up April 23rd
At the beginning I really wanted a boy and because of this talked myself into considering that it would be a girl (mostly because of sod's law - I was sure it would be a girl because I thought I'd prefer a boy). I came to the realisation that it is the pink aspect of having a girl that I don't like not the concept of having a girl. I was quite a tomboy when I was young and really didn't think I would be able to relate to a girly girl. However after a lot of thought, I figured that I would be happy to have a daughter and if she really likes pink, well that's no big deal - so long as OH and I bring her up to be a responsible, happy and healthy child, I would be a very proud Mum
Just for the record, I also have no problems if I have a son and he likes pink However this has left me with complete uncertainty as to what gender it is! We have a boy's name ready and are halfway there on a girl's name but I still can't wait to find out. Hurry up April 23rd
For the first couple of weeks i was convinced i was having a boy - but for some unknown reason my mind completely changed - just woke up one morning and thought, its a girl!! I'm positive i'm having a girl... don't know why, and really don't have a preference - certainly won't be disappointed if i have a boyl!!
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That's exactly the same as me! I just woke up one day adament that it is a girl. Everything just screams "girl" to me! I won't be disappointed at all if it is a boy though, I think I'm just set for hearing "it's a girl!"... xxCazC said:
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Im exactly the same.
Although I REALLY dont mind what the baby is... I thought i was having a boy from the very beginning. My partner is convinced it's a boy (but i think it's more like wishful thinking on his part coz he wants a boy first). I just cant picture myself with a girl at all.
When i imagine what it's going to be like with me, OH and LO i always imagine it's a boy. Although i cant think of any boys names at the moment and have plenty of girls ones
Il be happy with whatever the baby's sex is though (such a cliche) but "as long as it is healthy"
Although I REALLY dont mind what the baby is... I thought i was having a boy from the very beginning. My partner is convinced it's a boy (but i think it's more like wishful thinking on his part coz he wants a boy first). I just cant picture myself with a girl at all.
When i imagine what it's going to be like with me, OH and LO i always imagine it's a boy. Although i cant think of any boys names at the moment and have plenty of girls ones
Il be happy with whatever the baby's sex is though (such a cliche) but "as long as it is healthy"
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Im exactly the same.
Although I REALLY dont mind what the baby is... I thought i was having a boy from the very beginning. My partner is convinced it's a boy (but i think it's more like wishful thinking on his part coz he wants a boy first). I just cant picture myself with a girl at all.
When i imagine what it's going to be like with me, OH and LO i always imagine it's a boy. Although i cant think of any boys names at the moment and have plenty of girls ones
Il be happy with whatever the baby's sex is though (such a cliche) but "as long as it is healthy"
Although I REALLY dont mind what the baby is... I thought i was having a boy from the very beginning. My partner is convinced it's a boy (but i think it's more like wishful thinking on his part coz he wants a boy first). I just cant picture myself with a girl at all.
When i imagine what it's going to be like with me, OH and LO i always imagine it's a boy. Although i cant think of any boys names at the moment and have plenty of girls ones
Il be happy with whatever the baby's sex is though (such a cliche) but "as long as it is healthy"
