Kirsty.Y.84
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Please tell me if I it's just me being unreasonable but this has really stressed me out!
Last night my 2 sisters in law came round armed with looooads of baby stuff that they no longer need. Bearing in mind, one of them has already given us a lot of stuff, which we are extremely grateful for (moses basket, nursing chair, bouncer etc) but we had said to her that we have everything we need now, so could she keep anything else that she's got until we need it as we have no room to put it.
So last night they came in with bags and bags of clothes for baby, all in neutral colours as we are team yellow. Whilst I appreciate the gesture, I am only going to dress baby in neutrals for the first couple of weeks, until we can go shopping and buy some gender appropriate clothes.
Basically, I have no where to keep this stuff, nor do I think we will need it. Whilst I appreciate that people want to give us things, and I am by no means a snob when it comes to second hand, I want baby to have some new stuff and not be living in hand me downs! I know it sounds awful, but I was looking forward to needing to go shopping for lots of baby bits, and now I feel obliged to use the stuff we have been given rather than buy new things. It's our first baby, and I am excited about choosing all the little outfits for them!
So my dilema is, do I give some of the bits back, or would that be rude? Any advice ladies? Sorry for the long post! xx
Last night my 2 sisters in law came round armed with looooads of baby stuff that they no longer need. Bearing in mind, one of them has already given us a lot of stuff, which we are extremely grateful for (moses basket, nursing chair, bouncer etc) but we had said to her that we have everything we need now, so could she keep anything else that she's got until we need it as we have no room to put it.
So last night they came in with bags and bags of clothes for baby, all in neutral colours as we are team yellow. Whilst I appreciate the gesture, I am only going to dress baby in neutrals for the first couple of weeks, until we can go shopping and buy some gender appropriate clothes.
Basically, I have no where to keep this stuff, nor do I think we will need it. Whilst I appreciate that people want to give us things, and I am by no means a snob when it comes to second hand, I want baby to have some new stuff and not be living in hand me downs! I know it sounds awful, but I was looking forward to needing to go shopping for lots of baby bits, and now I feel obliged to use the stuff we have been given rather than buy new things. It's our first baby, and I am excited about choosing all the little outfits for them!
So my dilema is, do I give some of the bits back, or would that be rude? Any advice ladies? Sorry for the long post! xx