Is it just me...

[babyem]

Or is anyone else secretly feeling really broody?! I tell myself and everyone else that I dont want any more children for a few years if at all, but really I'm coming to realise this isn't true..

Im so jealous of all the ladies in B&T announcing their new pregnancies, especially the Aug/Sept/Oct 2012 Mummys. Obviously Im really happy to see BFPs but I cant help but feel so jealous

I keep day dreaming about prams, nurseries, newborn outfits and baby names. I love LM so much, she makes me so happy and proud and I love the feeling, and to feel like that about two children would just be perfect.

Even if I was still in a relationship, I couldnt even TTC for another 4 years with uni and then finding a job. Now its going to be even longer as I dont have an OH.

Next time I want to be in a loving abd honest relationship (ideally married), with a stable and decent job, my own house and a nice car. I know realidtically I could be waiting 6 years or more to even be able to TTC. Its breaking my heart.

LMs nana is expecting a baby in december and seeing her bump, all the baby things and that is getting abit much. I want all that.

I know iI probably sound daft, but its been buzzing round my head for days now xxx

 

[Loula]

Unfortunately im not feeling it. I dont have that burning desire.
Maybe coz im really struggling and i have no patience with keira.let alone her and another.
If they stayed newborn i may be persuaded haha.
Id love more children later on but like you i want to be more settled.
X

 

[Jo91]

I am currently pregnant and I'd love more children but I'm the same as you, I want to wait until I find an honest relationship for my next child. I know the feeling so you're not alone.

 

[HopesDreams]

I wasn't broody for aaaages. Even now, I don't think its broodiness. It's more wondering if I'll meet someone in time (I'm 31) & sad at the notion that I might not have another baby. O is such a dream baby though (bar his occasional sleep antics) so that makes it even easier to want another. I can't settle for someone, it has to be 'the one' or I'm not arsed about putting in the effort again. My last r'ship broke me in the regard.

 

[Franna75]

I know what you mean; many friends and colleagues are having babies and I'm reminiscing lots. I want my Son to have a sibling but there's not really much chance. I'm 38 next week and have absolutely no way of meeting an OH yet alone settling down. I would want it to be the right one too and doesn't seem likely at all

 

[HopesDreams]

& Franna, I don't have the desire to want to meet someone else either. I don't want to give up time with O just so I can spend time getting to know some fella. It's probably a very skewed way of looking at it but that's just where I'm at right now. x

 

[Loula]

& Franna, I don't have the desire to want to meet someone else either. I don't want to give up time with O just so I can spend time getting to know some fella. It's probably a very skewed way of looking at it but that's just where I'm at right now. x

You feel like that now but u may change your mind.
I have and still do sometimes think that but i know deep down i want to start having fun x

 

[HopesDreams]

Loula, I understand it could just be where I'm at right now, it probably is. O is still so tiny, he's 6 months so everything is still relatively new I guess.
I hope you find someone or at least get out & enjoy yourself. x

 

[yuku]

Have a man who really cares about you and a baby and settle down and lead a quiet life, maybe it is most of women' dream as they are getting older. Believe me, we will find the sense of belonging at last.

 

[Sproglett]

yeah the broody bug got me hun x

 

[kayuki123]

Me! I'm feeling mega broody! But even if I was with my ex and everything was ok between us I couldn't have another for a while. But meh I just keep thinking that I will give phoebe a little brother or sister one day in the future. Just have to drag mr right out of hiding. Lol xxx